How to Stop Being The Family Doormat Without Being the Bad Guy

Lessons for Life With Gramma Kate

Have you spent years keeping the peace in your family — only to realize you're being ignored, dismissed, or disrespected? In this episode, I share a personal story about drawing the line and finally being heard. If you're tired of being the “nice one” who never gets a say, this episode will show you exactly how to set boundaries without becoming the bad guy.

Key Takeaways:

✅ Why being the “peacekeeper” can silently train people to ignore your needs
✅ How to set a boundary without yelling, guilt-tripping, or shutting people out
✅ The difference between a boundary and a rule (and why this matters for kids!)
✅ Real-life example of holding someone accountable with calm, assertive communication
✅ How your response to being disrespected teaches people how to treat you
✅ Five parenting strategies to model and teach healthy boundaries at home
✅ Why teaching your child to say “no” is one of the greatest gifts you can give
✅ The truth about boundaries: it’s not rejection — it’s respect

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Children’s Books:

📕Finding Lily’s Inner Magic: A Tale of Building Confidence

📕Lily’s Journey to Forgiveness: Letting Go of Hurt and Anger

📕Finding Jack’s Magic Within: A Lesson About Kindness

📕Consistency is Key: Self-Care Tips with Lily & Zach

📕Making the Team: Jack’s Missed Goal

📕I Believe You: Self-Care When Your Parent Struggles Emotionally

📕Living With Grandma and Grandpa: Jack and Alice’s Challenges

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