Be More Nina

The Tutor Podcast

Neil shares an insightful conversation about the importance of defining one's own version of "normal." Through a personal story involving a friend named Nina, who chose to forgo a luxury vacation in favour of activities that truly bring her joy, Neil emphasises the value of making choices that align with individual values rather than societal expectations. He encourages listeners to embrace their unique preferences and to opt out of conventional norms that do not resonate with them. This episode serves as a reminder to prioritise personal happiness and fulfilment, challenging the notion that one must conform to what is deemed "normal" by others.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

1. Embrace Your Own Normal: It's important to define what "normal" means for you personally, rather than conforming to societal expectations. Everyone has different values and priorities, and it's okay to prioritise what makes you happy.

2. Value Your Choices: Making decisions based on what is truly important to you, even if it goes against the grain, is a sign of rational thinking. Choosing to stay home and engage in activities you love is a valid and brave choice.

3. Reject Societal Pressure: Opting out of societal norms may lead to being labelled as selfish, but it can also earn you respect from those who wish they could do the same. Your happiness should come first, and it's essential to live by your own rules.

4. Focus on Personal Fulfillment: Fill your life with activities and people that matter to you. Other people's opinions should not dictate your choices; prioritise your own happiness and values.

5. Encourage Authenticity: Be more like Nina—embrace your unique preferences and choices. By doing so, you not only enhance your own life but also inspire others to pursue their own version of happiness.

BEST MOMENTS

"You chose to do what's most important to you, despite that not being what most people would do."

"Deciding to stay home in your own idea of heaven is a rational choice."

"Normal is what most people do most of the time. Normal may be grim, uninspiring and generally a fun-free zone."

"I know your ideal day absolutely doesn't involve flopping around like a wet fish around a pool."

"Your first duty is to yourself and your values. Everyone else is of secondary importance."

VALUABLE RESOURCES

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Neil Cowmeadow is a maverick peripatetic guitar teacher from Telford with over 19 years’ experience in the business of helping people. Learn how to start, grow and love your business with Neil’s invaluable advice and tips without the buzzwords and BS!