81. Why He Never Listens (and What to Do About It) | Coaching Call with Christine

Speak Honest Podcast: Real Talk on Relationships, Attachment Styles & the Work of Healing Childhood Trauma

Do you ever feel like no matter how much you talk, he just doesn’t hear you?
In this episode of Speak Honest, I coach Christine through a struggle so many of us know too well: needing to feel heard in a relationship but ending up frustrated, blowing up, and then hating ourselves for it. Together, we unpack where those reactions really come from, why boundaries feel so hard to set in the moment, and how to start communicating in a way that actually works.

You might want to listen if:

• You feel like your partner tunes out or interrupts instead of really listening
• You find yourself going from zero to sixty when you don’t feel understood
• You’ve tried to set boundaries but they always come out reactive instead of proactive
• You hate the cycle of blowing up, apologizing, and then doubting yourself
• You want practical tools to feel heard without the constant fights

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1. 81. Why He Never Listens (and What to Do About It) | Coaching Call with Christine (00:00:00)

2. Episode Introduction (00:00:05)

3. Christine's Relationship Challenge (00:01:35)

4. Understanding Emotional Triggers (00:04:22)

5. The Body's Response to Triggers (00:08:42)

6. Setting Proactive vs. Reactive Boundaries (00:14:41)

7. Communication Strategies That Work (00:24:34)

8. Intent Matters in Relationships (00:32:20)

9. Key Takeaways and Episode Closing (00:36:27)