EP#131: How to Negotiate MORE in your Sex Life with Brian Jenkins

The Open Bedroom Podcast

The introduction (00:00:02) Jennifer and Brian introduce the episode and set the stage for their conversation about having difficult conversations with a partner regarding sexual exploration and needs within a long-term relationship.

Insight into Men's Resistance (00:03:49) Brian provides insight into why men may be resistant to their partners' desires for sexual exploration, including issues of trust, insecurity, and performance anxiety.

Navigating Edgy Desires (00:07:14) Jennifer and Brian discuss how to navigate when one partner's desires feel too edgy for the other, emphasizing the importance of open conversation and understanding each other's perspectives.

Role-Play Scenario (00:10:29) Jennifer and Brian act out a role-play scenario where Jennifer, as the woman, asks Brian, her partner, to join her in sexual exploration, demonstrating the negotiation and communication involved in such conversations.

Exploring Edgier Desires (00:14:24) The role-play delves into the exploration of edgier desires, including the idea of being watched, visiting a sex club, and potentially involving others, leading to a candid and exploratory conversation between the partners.

Reflection and Preparation (00:20:18) Brian emphasizes the need for both partners to be prepared for unexpected reactions and desires, encouraging open and supportive communication as they navigate their exploration together.

Openness and Safety (00:21:32) The importance of creating a safe space for exploring new sexual experiences and addressing potential insecurities.

Difficult Conversations (00:22:23) Tips for having difficult conversations in a relationship, including how to pose the conversation, renegotiate, and address potential concerns.

Leaning into Fear (00:23:24) Encouragement to lean into the fear of difficult conversations and focus on the potential beauty and growth that can come from openness and honesty.

Seeking Help (00:24:41) The benefit of seeking coaching or support for difficult conversations in relationships, and the availability of coaching services from the speakers.

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