AUTHENTIC SEX & EROTIC WHOLENESS with Darshana Avila

Sex, Psychics, & Psychedelics

KEY WORDS erotic wholeness, intimacy, sexuality, authenticity trauma, personal journey, sexual liberation, expectations, alternatives to sex, taboos, healing, family, healing, sexual expression, intimacy, communication, kink, self-intimacy, erotic wholeness, connection, belonging

summary

In this conversation, Darshana and Jane explore the concept of erotic wholeness, emphasizing the importance of integrating various aspects of oneself, including sexuality, creativity, and emotions. They discuss the pressures surrounding intimacy, the need to lower expectations, and the value of exploring alternative forms of connection. Darshana shares her personal journey towards sexual liberation and the significance of understanding trauma in relation to sexuality. The conversation also touches on the complexities of taboos in sexuality and the potential for healing through understanding these dynamics. In this conversation, Jane and Darshana explore the complexities of modern intimacy, the impact of societal norms on sexual expression, and the importance of self-intimacy and communication in relationships. They discuss the brokenness of family structures, the healing potential of connection, and the need for intentionality in creating sacred spaces for intimacy. The conversation also delves into the significance of slowing down in intimate encounters, the exploration of kink and sensation play, and the overarching wish for a culture that embraces erotic wholeness.

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sensation play yt video - https://youtu.be/BNIPb2i8Yuk?si=xFeShxmlEua_NseP

takeaways

• Erotic wholeness encompasses more than just sexuality.
• Lowering expectations can enhance intimacy experiences.
• Disappointment is a crucial aspect of mature relationships.
• Exploring alternatives to traditional sex can be fulfilling.
• Understanding trauma is essential for sexual liberation.
• Mainstream porn often misrepresents complex sexual themes.
• The integration of spirituality and sexuality can be transformative.
• Creating a culture of intimacy in relationships is vital.
• Animalistic qualities in intimacy can enhance connection.
• Healing can come from exploring taboo subjects in a safe way. The mainstream porn industry reflects a broken family dynamic.
• Healing in our culture is essential for true connection.
• Many people feel a lack of belonging and safety in their lives.
• Sexual expression is often met with repression in society.
• Creating sacred spaces in intimacy requires intentionality.
• Slowing down in intimate encounters enhances connection.
• Self-intimacy is crucial for understanding personal desires.
• Communication skills are vital for healthy relationships.
• Exploring kink can be done creatively without expensive tools.
• A culture of erotic wholeness can transform societal norms.

Chapters

00:00

Understanding Erotic Wholeness

02:29

Navigating Intimacy and Expectations

06:42

Exploring Alternatives to Traditional Sex

13:44

Personal Journey to Sexual Liberation

16:06

The Intersection of Trauma and Sexuality

22:00

Taboos in Sexuality and Healing

26:17

The Broken Family and Healing Through Connection

29:20

Navigating Sexual Expression and Repression

32:20

Creating Sacred Spaces in Intimacy

35:24

The Importance of Slowing Down in Intimacy

41:30

Self-Intimacy and Communication Skills

46:27

Exploring Kink and Sensation Play in Everyday Life

50:44

Wishes for a Culture of Erotic Wholeness

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