You Don’t Have to Destroy Yourself for Success with Alex Charfen

Modern Masculinity

Alex Charfen opens up about his decision to walk away from a successful business, despite its financial success, to focus on personal alignment and deeper connection in his life. He shares the intense physical and emotional toll that running a business can take and discusses the importance of recognizing when it's time to shift priorities. Alex pushes back against hustle culture, explaining the value of self-awareness, presence, and intentional living over constant work.

Chapters

• 00:00:00 - Welcome and Why This Episode Could Change Your Approach to Success
• 00:01:40 - Alex Charfen's Unfiltered Story: From Success to Personal Evolution
• 00:02:28 - Walking Away from Millions: Shutting Down for True Growth
• 00:03:55 - The Moment Alex Decided to Close His Business
• 00:05:41 - Unexpected Reactions: The Support Alex Never Expected
• 00:07:05 - Rethinking What It Means to Win as an Entrepreneur
• 00:12:57 - Why Your Relationship is More Important Than Your Business
• 00:18:35 - Confronting Your Identity: The Real Work Behind Personal Growth
• 00:22:40 - The Real Cost of Hustle Culture: Burnout and Beyond
• 00:24:21 - Entrepreneurial Anxiety: How It Shows Up and What to Do
• 00:28:25 - When Financial Success Feels Like Failure
• 00:31:14 - The Deep Journey to Finding Presence in Life
• 00:34:58 - How Presence Transforms Relationships (and Business)
• 00:40:28 - Daily Practices for Staying Grounded in a Fast-Moving World
• 00:42:07 - Creating Sacred Spaces for Deeper Connections
• 00:44:37 - Closing Thoughts and A Challenge to Redefine Your Own Success

Links and Resources:

• Alex Charfen
• Alex on LinkedIn
• Hector Santiesteban on LinkedIn
• Hector Santiesteban on Twitter

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