From Street Kid to International Teacher: Dr. John Demartini on the Power of Love & Gratitude

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Have you ever heard these myths about the transformative power of love and the importance of self-reflection? Myth #1: Love is just a romantic feeling that fades over time. Myth #2: Self-reflection is selfish and self-indulgent. Myth #3: Personal growth is only for those who are broken or need fixing. In this episode, our guest, Dr. John Demartini, will debunk these myths and reveal the truth behind the transformative power of love and self-reflection.

"Never let anyone's limited beliefs define your potential. With determination and perseverance, you can overcome any challenge and create an extraordinary and inspired life." - Dr. John Demartini

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About Our Guest:

Dr. John Demartini is a remarkable individual who overcame learning challenges to become a renowned teacher, researcher, writer, and traveler. As a young boy, he faced difficulties with speech and dyslexia, being told by his teacher that he would never be able to read, write, or effectively communicate. This led him to leave school and take up surfing, eventually becoming a big wave rider in Hawaii. However, a life-changing encounter with a gentleman at a recovery class inspired him to believe in himself and his ability to overcome his learning challenges.

Motivated by a vision of himself speaking in front of a million people, Dr. Demartini embarked on a journey to overcome his learning problems. With the support of his mother, he began reading the dictionary and memorizing 30 words a day to expand his vocabulary. Within two years, he had learned over 20,000 words, surpassing the average person's vocabulary. This newfound ability to read and comprehend inspired him to devour books, spending up to 20 hours a day reading.

Driven by a passion for knowledge, Dr. Demartini made a commitment to study every discipline known to amass a body of knowledge he could rely on as a teacher. He compiled a list of every discipline and ology and set out to read around 100 books in each field. This ambitious endeavor led him to read over 31,000 books across 300 disciplines, seeking to understand the common laws and principles that transcended different fields of study.

Today, Dr. Demartini continues his voracious reading habit, dedicating himself to researching, writing, and speaking. For over 51 years, he has been on a mission to share his knowledge and insights with the world, traveling to every country on Earth to help individuals maximize their awareness potential and live extraordinary lives. Inspired by the gentleman who believed in him during his difficult times, Dr. Demartini strives to inspire others and provide them with the same support and guidance he received.

Dr. John Demartini's journey from struggling with learning challenges to becoming a globally recognized and respected figure is a testament to his determination, resilience, and passion for helping others. As a teacher, researcher, writer, and traveler, he continues to make a significant impact in the lives of countless individuals through his invaluable knowledge and teachings.

Reasons to Listen:

• Realize the potentialities lurking within personal growth, powered by vision and goal-setting.
• Unravel the mysteries behind learning obstacles, and how an unconventional road to victory can actually bear unique successes.
• Explore transformative love, understanding its powerful role in self-identification and the essentiality of retrospection.
• Venture into the intriguing Demartini Method and its influence on expanding cognitive horizons and accepting life's perfections.
• Recognize the significance of gratitude in self-betterment, and discover how the vast array of values can give us wisdom and insight into who we are.

Episode Highlights:

00:00:00 - Redefining Success and Transforming Relationships

Dr. John Demartini discusses how love can transform relationships and business when we stop putting others on pedestals or in pits and instead hold them in our hearts.

00:01:17 - Dr. John Demartini's Background and Mission

Dr. Demartini shares his journey of overcoming learning challenges and dyslexia to become a teacher, researcher, writer, and traveler. His mission is to share knowledge and help people live extraordinary and inspired lives.

00:04:41 - The Polymath Perspective

Dr. Demartini explains how his passion for learning and understanding different disciplines led him to become a polymath. By studying a wide range of topics, he discovered common principles that can be applied to maximize human potential.

00:09:28 - Challenging Traditional Education

Dr. Demartini reflects on how leaving the traditional education system allowed him to ask new questions and think differently. He credits his unconventional experiences and encounters with inspiring individuals for shaping his unique perspective.

00:13:51 - The Power of Human Motivation

Dr. Demartini shares how his desire to change his circumstances and a chance encounter with a teacher led to his transformation. He emphasizes the importance of setting goals, living by design, and prioritizing what truly matters to create a fulfilling life.

00:15:41 - Discovering Yoga and a Vision,

Dr. John Demartini shares how he stumbled upon a yoga class in Hawaii and had a vision during a guided meditation. He describes the painting that depicts this vision and how it represents his mission to share a message with the world.

00:16:48 - Near Death Experience,

Dr. John Demartini recounts a surfing accident where he nearly drowned after being caught in a 40-foot wave. He describes how he passed out in a supermarket after drinking buttermilk and shares the vision he saw that night.

00:20:09 - Overcoming Challenges and Pursuing Education,

Dr. John Demartini reflects on his struggles with education and his determination to overcome them. He shares how he made a commitment to memorize the dictionary and read encyclopedias to improve his vocabulary. He also discusses his journey as a teacher and trainer.

00:22:29 - The Power of Love,

Dr. John Demartini discusses his belief in love as the synthesis of all pairs of opposites. He explains how embracing both positive and negative aspects in relationships leads to growth and development. He also highlights the science of love and his use of the Demartini method to explore conscious awareness.

00:27:53 - The Universal Love,

Dr. John Demartini shares his perspective on love as a universal force present at all scales of existence. He emphasizes the elegant symmetry and mathematical conservation found in love.

00:29:55 - Society and Culture,

The guest reflects on the current state of society and culture, acknowledging the fluctuations between optimism and disappointment. He shares his personal journey of self-reflection and realization that all human traits exist within each individual. The importance of embracing these traits without judgment is emphasized.

00:35:39 - Reflective Awareness and Love,

The guest explains how reflective awareness leads to intimacy and true love. By recognizing that what we perceive in others is a reflection of ourselves, we can let go of judgment and embrace both our admired and despised traits. Love, equanimity, and fairness are key to maximizing human potential in all areas of life.

00:37:52 - Breaking Free from Comparison,

The guest explores the tendency to compare ourselves to others, which is amplified by social media. He emphasizes that all individuals are equal in their creation and possess both positive and negative traits. Breaking free from judgment and comparison requires self-reflection and owning our own traits.

00:40:28 - Embracing Both Sides,

The guest discusses the importance of embracing both positive and negative experiences in life. By recognizing the wisdom in all situations, we can cultivate a sense of fulfillment and avoid being controlled by external circumstances. The goal is to find the balance and love within ourselves and others.

00:42:48 - Physiology of Love,

The guest delves into the physiological effects of love and balance. When we experience support and challenge in perfect balance, our body enters a state of autonomic

00:43:47 - Unconditional Love and Judgments,

The conversation begins with the idea of unconditional love and how children experience it in their early years, but then start to pick up judgments from others as they grow older. Dr. Demartini explains that it takes time and personal growth to transcend these judgments and reach a point of unconditional love for oneself and others.

00:44:42 - Introduction to the Di Martini Method,

The host suggests doing an introduction to the Di Martini Method, a system developed by Dr. Demartini over the past 50 years. The method aims to make people conscious of the hidden information and judgments that affect their lives, so they can achieve a state of authenticity, gratitude, and empowerment in all aspects of life.

00:46:17 - The Quest for Hidden Order,

Dr. Demartini shares how his journey to find the hidden order in the universe began when he received books on various subjects as a gift. He mentions studying philosophy, quantum mechanics, and other fields to understand the hidden order and how positive and negative emotions can be combined to achieve enlightenment and love.

00:48:47 - The Development of the Di Martini Method,

Dr. Demartini explains that the Di Martini Method is a series of concise questions designed to make individuals conscious of the information they've overlooked or been unconscious of. By becoming fully conscious and seeing both sides of every situation, individuals can experience a state of grace and gratitude that empowers all areas of life.

00:58:11 - Different Stages of Awareness,

Different people resonate with different stages of awareness. It's both helping and interfering depending on where you are. The journey of discovery and understanding is important.

00:59:04 - Connecting with Dr. John Demartini,

If you're intimidated by the conversation or want to start at a simple stage, visit Dr. John Demartini's website for various resources and media content. There are classes for different levels of awareness.

01:00:31 - Spectrum of Values,

There is a spectrum of values and awareness. It's important not to judge or dismiss others' values. Reflective awareness and gratitude can lead to liberation and love for others and the world we live in.

01:01:45 - Gratitude and Seeking,

Gratitude and seeking are key aspects of life. Being grateful for what you have attracts more to be grateful for. Seeking insights and maximizing our contribution to sustainable fair exchange with others is innate in us.

01:03:46 - Choose "Seek",

Dr. John Demartini chooses "Seek" as it aligns with our innate yearning for something extraordinary. Seeking insights and inspiration helps us contribute to the world and engage in sustainable fair exchange.

Key Lessons:

1. The concept of seeing others as a reflection of ourselves and recognizing the disowned parts of ourselves. By acknowledging and embracing these traits, we can find greater self-awareness and growth.

2. The importance of self-reflection and asking quality questions to liberate ourselves from emotional entanglements. The Demartini method is a tool that can help in becoming more conscious and aware of overlooked information.

3. The significance of love as a combination of what we like and dislike equally, and the need to embrace both sides. Love is not about wanting someone to change, but about accepting and appreciating their entirety.

4. The impact of love and equanimity in maximizing human potential, affecting various areas of life such as physiology, epigenetics, relationships, and business.

5. The recognition that there is a hidden order in the universe and a deeper understanding to be gained through self-improvement and personal growth.

6. The importance of recognizing the spectrum of values and not considering our own values as superior to others'. Embracing equality and respecting differences can lead to more harmony and understanding.

7. The significance of educational progression, both in the academic and religious realms, and the journey from illusions to truth.

8. The power of visualization, affirmation, action, and goal-setting in achieving personal transformation and overcoming challenges.

9. The impact of early challenges and setbacks can be overcome with perseverance, commitment, and a strong support system.

10. The value of continuous learning and the pursuit of knowledge across various disciplines to live an extraordinary and inspired life.

These lessons highlight the importance of self-reflection, embracing all aspects of ourselves, and fostering love and understanding in our relationships and personal development.

Resources & Action Steps:

• Visit Dr. John Demartini's website to learn more about his work and teachings: www.drdemartini.com
• Check out Dr. Demartini's books on Amazon for in-depth knowledge and guidance on personal transformation and success.
• Explore Dr. Demartini's online courses and programs to dive deeper into his teachings and apply them to your own life.
• Follow Dr. Demartini on social media for daily inspiration and updates on his latest projects and events.
• Consider attending one of Dr. Demartini's live events or seminars to experience his teachings in person and connect with like-minded individuals.
• Subscribe to the Seek Go Create podcast to listen to more episodes featuring inspiring guests and thought-provoking conversations about redefining success.
• Share this episode of the Seek Go Create podcast with friends, family, or colleagues who might benefit from Dr. Demartini's insights and perspectives on success and personal transformation.
• Take action and start implementing the principles and strategies discussed in this episode to create positive changes in your own life and relationships.

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