Is Porn Adultery?

Relationship Truth: Unfiltered

The Danger of Pornography:

• It's not just a biblical issue; studies in psychology and science show the harmful effects of pornography.
• Pornography can lead to sexual dysfunction, making individuals less responsive to a normal sexual relationship with their partner.
• Internet addiction, including pornography, is causing societal problems, making people less connected and more self-absorbed.

The Objectification and Harm of Women:

• Leslie points out the mistreatment, objectification, and even trafficking of women in the pornography industry.
• She quotes Jesus, who condemned those who harm children, linking this to the harm caused by pornography, especially when children are involved.

Is Pornography Adultery?:

• According to the Bible, adultery is not limited to physical acts; it also includes unfaithfulness and lustful thoughts.
• The reluctance of some churches to equate pornography with adultery may stem from the fear of increasing divorce rates in their congregations.

Addressing Pornography Addiction:

• It's important to learn how to say no to oneself for a higher purpose.
• If one can't be honest about their addiction and seeks to hide it, the lying becomes a deeper issue than the addiction itself.

Masturbation:

• If a partner is unavailable due to injury or illness, self-care may be appropriate. However, using masturbation to avoid intimacy can be harmful to the relationship.

Women and Pornography:

• Pornography is not solely a male issue, as more women are exploring their own sexual desires.
• Leslie highlights the dangers of pornography, emphasizing that it can lead to unhealthy relationships and addiction.

Talking to Children About Pornography:

• Leslie provides advice on how to approach the topic of children watching pornography or exploring their bodies.
• She emphasizes not shaming children but educating them about appropriate boundaries.

Hope for Recovery:

• Leslie offers hope for those affected by pornography addiction, emphasizing the importance of forgiveness and redemption.
• She encourages a path toward honesty and away from deception and addiction.

Support for Spouses:

• Leslie advises spouses not to become consumed with fixing their partner's problem but to address their own emotions and needs.
• It's essential to focus on personal safety, trust, and emotional well-being while being compassionate and supportive.