31: It's Not Fair

Relationship Transformers

In this episode, Paul and Stacey will talk about a very powerful dynamic that keeps so many people stuck and miserable. It’s a dynamic that goes beyond marriages, and into all the relationships that people have in life, and it impacts us every single day, and yet it’s invisible to us.

Paul and Stacey will reveal what it is, how people have a lot of misconceptions about it, and how it always puts us in endless battles with the people that we are in relationships with. They will also share the action steps we can take right now to stop being victims of the dynamic, so we can start experiencing joy and fulfillment in all our relationships. Listen in and learn.

Key Points Discussed:

• Fairness is determined by the perspective of the person who is deciding whether it's fair or not (02:38)
• Our need for things to be fair only holds us back (03:46)
• Measuring what we get in exchange for what we’re giving (08:21)
• The concept of fairness in relationships is borne by measuring and keeping scores (10:20)
• The withdrawal and holding back that comes from expecting others to give in the same way we do (13:34)
• Accepting the unfairness of life without being bitter or negative (16:18)
• Be the one to take action in your relationship without depending on your partner (19:46)
• Making a decision and committing for 90 days (22:40)

Additional Resources:

• The 14-Day Boost Program
• www.MyRelationshipDevelopmentCommunity.com

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