"Do girls like older guys? Do 'old' guys get rejected more?"

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This clip is in response to a question I received about rejection in relation to age. I thought the Q was a half-troll because my last video was about how I get rejected all of the time, so count on someone to immediately seize on the opportunity to question whether it's about, e.g., something I'm doing wrong, or about age, etc. I'm literally the only person out there who preaches with candor about how rejection is normal. Show me someone who tells you the truth about how rejection to the level I do. Won't happen. I can't reiterate more that rejection will compose the majority of your interactions no matter who you are, what you say, or what you do. This is how it will be forever, in perpetuity. Essentially, getting rejected all of the time right now while I'm in my prime at age 34 is "training me" for when I get rejected all of the time when I'm, e.g., 64. Very very rare that a girl will actually care that the male is older. She might say she doesn't prefer a guy who's, e.g., 52, but she'll by all means still date him if he's forward/confident enough and decently in shape. If the male is insecure about it and lacks confidence, that will reflect outwardly in his behavior, and that will actually be what winds up getting him rejected more than likely. Male SMV is actually a lot higher during his 30s and 40s as compared to his 20s. In other words, I will open girls who are 18+ when I'm a lot older, and various ones might even say, "Oh wow, creepy, grandpa are you lost?" But I'll know that the incessant rejections I get, even when I eventually hit my 60s, won't be *because* I'm older; they'll be because that's how most interactions go regardless. I'll reflect on all of the rejections I got when I was in my 20s and 30s and say, "I got rejected incessantly when I was in my prime. That's no different from now." But more concretely, right now at 34 my ability to be forward and pull is a lot greater compared to even just a couple years ago. The notion of male SMV rising into his 30s it's just some arbitrary concept; it really does manifest in the sense that you will continue to become increasingly confident and bold. I can *feel* that my SMV is higher now. And it should be noted that this is because I have been an active practitioner and have stayed consistent with approach. In terms of any value I can provide you, I want you to know that if you are in your 20s and feel like you are getting "old," or are concerned about getting older, just know that things will only get better into your 30s. Insofar as you continue approaching, your confidence level will continue to rise in a way that cannot be faked. You will also fuck up a lot less in your 30s. Essentially the 20s male is characterized by fucking up a lot. And this entails many blown experiences that reside with the male painfully. But these only ignite him going forward, and he is less inclined to make the same mistakes into his 30s...

Full article: https://mikemehlman.net/2021/02/08/do-girls-like-older-guys