Podcast Short: Where Did All The Time Go?

Life Talk with Craig Lounsbrough

Where Did All The Time Go?

“Rush often results in waste and moments forever lost. Attention to time is inattention to the life that fills that time. So much can be lost.”

“Where did all the time go?” We ask that all the time. However, it’s not where the time went. It’s what we were doing with the time while it was going.

Think about this. When it comes to time, we only get a certain amount of it. We get this block of time that has a distinct beginning that we’ve already experienced. We’re done with that part of it. But as for the ending, we’re not all that certain when that’s going to show up. All we know is that sooner or later, it’s going to show up. And we can’t buy more time to push that date out. Time’s not renewable so you can’t use it a couple of times over to stretch it out. You can’t manufacture more of it. You can’t store it away so you can go grab a bunch of it when you’re about ready to run out of whatever amount of time you had. Time is what it is. And whether we use it wisely, or foolishly, or selfishly, or sacrificially, it goes by at the exact same speed every single second of every single day.

We can’t mess with time or alter it. We can’t But here’s one major change that we can make. We can ask, what are we doing with the time that we have? Is there anything that we’re doing that’s constructive? At the end of a day, or an hour, or a week or whatever, do we have anything to show for whatever it was that we did with that time? Did we use it as a means to heal from something in the past, or lay a foundation for something in the future? Did we use it to solve a problem, or did we expend it running from a problem? Did we use our time to make amends in a relationship where we had made a mess? Did we use it to chart a course to a goal that will lift our lives to the next level, or did we squander our time charting a goal to not chart a goal? Did someone, somewhere get out of bed this morning better than they got out of bed yesterday morning because we added something to their lives in the course of the twenty-four hours between those two events? Is someone more hopeful about the future because we engaged them in their past? In whatever way today is better for you, or for me, or the world out there, is it better because we used the time to make it better rather than squandering the time making it nothing?

And so we ask, “Where did all the time go?” We ask that all the time, and the older you get the more you’re going to ask it. But remember, it’s not where the time went. It’s what we were doing while it was going. What did you do with it, because you did something with it. But was the “something” of value? Did it heal you, challenge you, move you forward, call you to right a wrong, prompt you to touch a life, lift a soul in distress, give a weary heart some shred of hope, guide a child, mend a relationship, connect with God, or anything else like this. Because these are things that mark time well. These are the things that make our time well-spent. And if we fill our time with these kinds of things, we won’t be asking “Where did all the time go?” because we’ll know where it went.