Dom and Top Guilt-S04E44

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Recorded: 10/02/2022 / Published: //2023

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• - In this week’s episode we are talking about Top Guilt and how it affects Dom/Top Drop

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• 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
• 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
• 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young

1. - “Top Guilt and how it affects Dom Drop-S04E44”
   • Red guilt:
   • Marking guilt:
   • Accident guilt:
   • Newbie guilt:
   • Religious guilt:
   • Madonna/whore guilt:
   • General guilt:
   • Educating yourself as much can help prevent landmines.
   • Self-exploration:
   • Partnered Exploration:
   • Negotiation:
   • Communication, starting low and going slow:
   • Dom/Top Guilt Defined: feelings of remorse, regret, and/or empathy felt by Doms and Tops after a scene due to the effects of the scene, whether positive or negative, on the submissive or bottom. It can also be caused by intentional or unintentional shaming. (i.e. you could have hit harder (unintentional), I thought you were a Dominant (intentional), etc)
   • Who experiences Dom/Top guilt?:
   • Why does Dom/Top guilt occur?:
   • Types of Dom/Top guilt:
   • Dealing with Dom/Top guilt:
   • Preventing Dom/Top Guilt:

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