Episode 180: Benjamin Sledge "Civil Affairs and Psychological Operations Command"

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-CHAPTERS-

00:00 Introduction and Background

03:04 Family Influence and Military Legacy

06:13 Father's Role in AIDS Care and Compassion

12:12 Struggles with Faith and Church Disillusionment

18:49 Teenage Identity and Social Acceptance

29:58 Military Decision and Internal Conflict

36:06 Training and Preparation for War

44:47 Facing Reality: The Moment of Arrival

52:02 Beliefs and Misconceptions: Understanding the Mission

58:29 Cultural Shock: From Curiosity to Disillusionment

01:01:52 The Weight of Loss: Remembering Kyle

01:10:39 The Struggle with Purpose: Transitioning Home

01:22:02 Faith and Philosophy: Questioning Existence

01:27:22 Finding Connection: The Role of Father Rocheford

01:29:45 The Weight of War and Personal Struggles

01:38:28 The Impact of Relationships on Mental Health

01:46:39 Facing the Consequences of Past Actions

01:57:33 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Healing

02:08:27 The Importance of Sharing Veteran Stories

-SUMMARY-

In this conversation, Benjamin Sledge shares his journey from a challenging upbringing in Oklahoma to becoming a decorated combat veteran and author. He discusses the profound influence of his family, particularly his parents, on his values and choices, including his decision to join the military. Sledge reflects on his father's pioneering work as an AIDS nurse during a time of stigma and fear, and how this shaped his understanding of compassion and empathy. He also delves into his struggles with faith, identity, and the pressures of social acceptance during his teenage years, ultimately leading to a conflict between his desire for a carefree college life and the responsibilities of military service. The conversation culminates in a discussion about the importance of training and preparation for the realities of war, highlighting the internal conflicts faced by soldiers. In this segment of the conversation, the speaker reflects on their experiences in Afghanistan and Iraq, detailing the emotional and psychological challenges faced upon arrival, the disillusionment with the mission, and the impact of loss on their perspective. They explore the complexities of cultural understanding, the struggle with purpose after returning home, and the philosophical questions that arise from witnessing the brutality of war. The discussion also touches on the importance of connection and mentorship, particularly through the figure of Father Rocheford, who offers a different perspective on faith and purpose. In this conversation, Benjamin Sledge shares his profound experiences as a veteran, exploring the weight of war, the impact of relationships on mental health, and the journey of self-discovery and healing. He reflects on the importance of sharing veteran stories and the struggles of reconciling his past actions with his present self. Through candid discussions about faith, personal growth, and the challenges of life after combat, Sledge emphasizes the need for community and understanding in the healing process.

-TAKEAWAYS-

Philosophical reflections on the human condition arise from war experiences.

The search for purpose can lead to self-destructive behavior.

Mentorship plays a crucial role in navigating trauma.

Faith can be questioned in the face of war's brutality. War can leave deep emotional scars that affect personal relationships.

The importance of having someone to talk to about one's struggles cannot be overstated.

Self-reflection is crucial in understanding one's role in past relationships.

Healing often requires facing uncomfortable truths about oneself.

Community support is vital for veterans dealing with trauma.

Sharing stories can help bridge the gap between veterans and civilians.

Faith can be a source of strength during difficult times.

Acknowledging one's flaws is the first step towards personal growth.

Writing can be a therapeutic outlet for processing trauma.

Understanding moral injury is essential for veterans' mental health.