Does This Season of White Lotus Suck? PLUS John Bukaty Interviews Dave PATREON TEASER!

Dopey: On the Dark Comedy of Drug Addiction

THESE ARE NOTES ON THE EPISODE - NOT THE TEASER!

📝 Show Notes:

🧠 Childhood Chaos

Born in NYC, nearly died of a staph infection

Fell off a table and cracked his skull at 8 months old

Walked home alone at 3 years old 💥

Deep TV addiction starts young (shoutout to MTV, Different Strokes & Give Me a Break)

🎭 Early Identity Stuff

Shirt chewing, sugar binging, and fake depression for attention

Didn’t want a bar mitzvah: “It’s not your party, it’s my party.”

Too insecure to get lifted in the chair at his own bar mitzvah 😬

Played harmonica in a ska band called The Percolators

🍹 First Drug Stories

First drunk = 16 screwdrivers at summer camp → blackout, vomit, shame

Never got into booze, but took acid at a Dead show before ever trying weed

Eventually... heroin, methadone, weed, and the long road home

🎨 Art, Fear & Flow

MTV intern in high school, obsessed with music and creativity

Paralyzed by fear, self-doubt, and a deep need to be authentic

Big art nerd: Kandinsky, Mondrian, Jackson Pollock, Bob Dylan, Richard Pousette-Dart 🎨

🌞 Spirituality, Recovery & the Dopey DNA

Wanted spirituality before he had it

“The Sunlight of the Spirit” and the resentment trap

Early recovery = doing it because he had to

Found real connection through service, comedy, and storytelling

🎙️ The Real Dopey

It’s not just about drugs — it’s love, dumb shit, and keeping people company

Letting your freak flag fly, creating community, and making people laugh

Dave’s dream: Dopey TV show, doc series, global recovery adventures, Keith Richards in a chair at DopeyCon 🤘

“I just want to make something worth putting in your ears.”

💔 Final Thoughts

On grief, fatherhood, fear, flow, and evolution

Bukaty calls Dave out on blind spots

Dave: “I like the idea of displacing my father and taking over the apartment.” 😂

Tribute to Annie Ellie and the Dopey Nation: “It feeds the show. It is the show.”

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