297: The problems with polarity (ft. Jason Lange)

Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

Polarity can help you have a hot sex & dating life, not to mention a stronger love relationship overall. And like many things in life, it's not a perfect concept; there are issues with it.

"In what ways have you found polarity to be useful in your sex and relationship life? In what ways have you found it to be off or problematic?"

I posed these questions to our clients in an effort to help shine a light on the problems with polarity. I believe polarity can be hugely helpful in understanding sexual attraction and heat, as well as trust and fulfillment, in both short- and long-term relationships. I also believe it can help us understand ourselves better as human beings in our own rights, not just in interpersonal dynamics.

Becoming skillful with polarity is a valuable goal, and including its flaws in the conversation is important. Here we delve into what we see as the top three problems with polarity, and how to use it as a force of good in sex, dating, and relationships.

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Memorable quotes from this episode:

• "Alpha is often observing and omega is being observed."
• "Things can be in opposition without being in conflict."
• "Polarity is not an excuse for abusive behavior."

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Other helpful episodes on polarity:

• 181: What exactly is polarity? We break it down. (ft. Violet Lange)
• 103: Reverse polarity can kill your sex life as a couple -- unless you do this