10 Truths Middle Schoolers Should Know

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I don’t know anyone who remembers loving middle school—the physical changes, the up-and-down emotions, the longing to fit in, navigating turbulent friendships, etc., etc. etc. I just ran across and article in Christian Parenting from which I’m going to share today. Author, Kari Kampakis shares "10 Truths Middle Schoolers Should Know." I think as parents, we also need to know them so we can encourage our children who are going through these turbulent pre-teen years. So stash these suggestions in your arsenal of parenting helps and perhaps even share the article with your pre-teen.
Truth #10: Today's awkward moments will be tomorrow's funniest memories. Middle school may feel overwhelming, but remind your kids to keep a sense of humor – those embarrassing moments will fade with time and become hilarious stories.
Truth #9: You don't want to peak in middle school. Encourage your child to aim for personal growth and development instead of chasing popularity. Their best chapters are ahead of them, and they should aim to peak later in life.
Truth #8: Technology can make or break relationships. Teach your preteens to use social media responsibly and understand the impact of their actions online.
Truth #7: The importance of good company. Guide your child to surround themselves with friends who uplift and support them, steering clear of risky or compromising situations.
Truth #6: What makes you different makes you great. Encourage individuality and assure your kids that standing out is a positive thing.
Truth #5: It’s OK to not have your life planned out. It’s OK if you haven’t discovered your “thing.”
Truth #4: Labels are big in middle school, but remember that having a football jersey or cheerleader uniform or designer clothes doesn’t increase your worth. Base your identity on the one thing you’ll never lose—God’s love—your foundation is unshakable.
Truth #3: Applause can be misleading. Social media numbers don’t define you. The best applause to live for is the quiet peace inside youself. What makes you feel good about yourself?
Truth #2: Be careful who you listen to. Develop a strong filter for whose words you take to heart—and whose words you ignore. Some questions to ask yourself are: Do I trust this person? Are they respectable? Do they practice what they preach?
Truth #1: You’re awesome. All these crazy changes are leading to something amazing. In the grand scheme of life, middle school is only a blip, so keep it in check. Have fun, dream big, and make good choices.

10 Truths Middle Schoolers Should Know
By Kari Kampakis
Christian Parenting (Oct. 12, 2021)

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