Heal from Infidelity is a podcast dedicated to teaching women how to heal their lives from the inside out after betrayal in their marriages. Life Coach Andrea Giles combines her own personal experience and coaching wisdom to help women move past their biggest hurdles of learning to trust themselves (and others) again. She will teach you how to create a life you never dreamed possible. You’ll be amazed at what you are capable of when you learn how to powerfully help yourself. For more informa ...
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Welcome to the After Infidelity podcast, your trusted guide to healing and recovery after the pain of infidelity. Hosted by Hasani Pettiford, co-founder and Infidelity Recovery Specialist for Couples Academy, this podcast is dedicated to helping individuals and couples rebuild their lives, restore their relationships, and rediscover hope. Each week, we delve into a wide range of topics, offering practical advice, expert insights, and inspiring success stories. Whether you’re struggling to re ...
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Human lives follow many paths. Presenting twists and turns and choices never planned, never expected. Temptation, anger, depression and loneliness all can lead a person to a mistake they can‘t take back. Facing judgement and isolation, a person can feel very alone. These are the voices of women who have chosen to cheat on their spouses or partners. This is RAW TRUTH... Stories of Female Infidelity
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We talk about topics that focus on not only surviving but thriving after being betrayed by a partner or spouse. It can be one of the most traumatic times of your life, and feel very lonely. And that’s why we’re here. So welcome, this is your safe space.
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No matter who you are, one of the worst things that can happen to a person is to be cheated on by their partner- Married or not. The commitment to the relationship is a strong bond, important for family life, kids or not. Or, at least, it's supposed to be. No Shame Betrayed is for the victims of infidelity or people who suspect their partner is cheating. If you're still in the relationship or have moved out or divorced, you are going through trauma. YOU are not alone. Let's help others, shar ...
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Intimacy After Infidelity | Rebuild Connection, Emotional Healing, Forgiveness for Adultery, Avoid Divorce
Kristina Joy | Affair Recovery Coach, Spiritual Healing, Christian Marriage Counseling
The Go-to Podcast for Christian Women Who Want to Heal Their Heart to Shed Their Shame! *TOP 2.5% GLOBALLY* * #9 RELATIONSHIPS PODCAST* Do you wish someone would stop and see you, instead of looking through you or past you? Are you Googling ways to communicate and connect with your husband, but you’re still not feeling heard? Do you lay awake at night wondering if your marriage can survive infidelity or what’s the first step to file for divorce? Your vows are broken, and you’re so full of sh ...
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Loss, Grief and Rebirth with Julie Cluff | Ep #180
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42:09Today's guest is Julie Cluff, a hope and grief coach, who shares her profound journey of loss and transformation after the tragic death of her two children in a car accident. Julie discusses the impact of grief, the importance of self-compassion, and the process of reclaiming joy after loss. She emphasizes the significance of sharing our stories an…
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Build Your Couple Identity
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Stop Reacting and Start Leading | Ep #179
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25:15Today we're going to stop reacting and start leading. Let's talk about the importance of moving from a reactive state to a proactive one in relationships, especially after infidelity. We'll discuss the need for self-leadership, the power of pausing before responding, and the significance of understanding one's triggers. Key Takeaways: Reacting to a…
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Self-Repair After Betrayal | Ep #178
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24:39Today we discuss the essential process of self-repair after experiencing betrayal with an emphasis on the importance of focusing on your relationship with yourself rather than solely on repairing the relationship with your partner. We explore how infidelity can shatter self-trust, the urgency of self-repair, and practical steps to rebuild self-trus…
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From Friendships to Infidelity: The Hidden Danger Zones in Modern Relationships
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Talking About The Affair (part 2)
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Why Those Who Invest in Themselves Heal Faster | Ep #177
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32:47Today we explore the critical importance of investing in oneself for healing and personal growth after infidelity. Those who commit financially and emotionally to their healing journey tend to see the most significant transformations. We address some common objections to investing in oneself, the concept of money as an energetic exchange, the high …
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Turning Intense Moments into Growth | Ep #176
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23:23In this episode, we discuss the journey of healing from infidelity through personal growth and empowerment. Using a skiing experience as a metaphor, I emphasize the importance of making conscious choices in response to challenges and triggers. The episode highlights the significance of micro choices in shaping our emotional responses and the power …
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Is It Healthy Love or Love Addiction? | Ep #175
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23:29In this episode, we explore the critical differences between healthy love and love addiction. We discuss the emotional dependencies that characterize love addiction, the signs to recognize it, and the traits of healthy love. The conversation delves into the root causes of love addiction, including unresolved childhood wounds and attachment styles, …
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Influence Through Self-Leadership | Ep #174
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23:16In this episode, we discuss the importance of self-leadership in the healing process after infidelity. Self-leadership involves taking responsibility for one's thoughts, emotions, and actions, which can significantly influence relationships. We cover various aspects of self-leadership, including emotional regulation, integrity, accountability, sett…
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Transactional Versus Generous Giving | Ep #173
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24:24In this episode, we look at the concepts of transactional versus generous giving in relationships, particularly in the context of healing after infidelity. We discuss the motivations behind giving, the emotional toll of transactional giving, and the importance of genuine generosity without expectations. The episode emphasizes the need for self-awar…
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Understanding Triggers After Infidelity
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Psychological Control and Emotional Dependence: Inside Diddy’s Toxic Relationships
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Infidelity In The Church
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Talking About The Affair
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Navigating Change After Infidelity | Ep #172
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23:26In this episode we discuss the challenges of navigating personal change and grief after infidelity. I share my own experiences of emotional upheaval as my son leaves for college, exploring the triggers that arise during significant life transitions. We'll emphasize the importance of self-awareness, healthy communication, and grounding techniques to…
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Lily- Staying for the Kids
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29:48Special Episode - Lily's story about staying for the kids. The podcast "Raw Truth: Stories of Female Infidelity" will be ceasing new episodes at the end of October 2024,and Patreon exclusives, at the end of 2024. However, previously published episodes will continue to be accessible to new listeners, allowing them to still engage with the content. T…
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False Confidence | Ep #171
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26:51In this episode, we discuss the concept of false confidence, particularly in the context of healing from infidelity. We explore the difference between true empowerment and the illusion of strength, emphasizing the importance of authenticity and vulnerability in the healing process. The episode highlights how performative behaviors can hinder emotio…
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Recognizing Narcissism with Kendra Last | Ep #170
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47:34In this episode, Kendra Last and I delve into the complexities of narcissism in relationships, particularly in the context of betrayal and infidelity. Kendra shares her personal experiences with narcissistic partners, highlighting the signs and traits of narcissism, the impact it has on individuals, and the importance of recognizing one's worth in …
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What True Remorse Looks Like | Ep #169
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26:58In this episode, we discuss the critical role of remorse in healing from infidelity. I'll emphasize the importance of genuine apologies, the characteristics of real remorse, and how to advocate for meaningful communication in relationships. The conversation provides insights into what constitutes true remorse and the steps necessary for rebuilding …
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The Free Fall of Commitment | Ep #168
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27:59Today let's delve into the complexities of commitment, especially in the wake of infidelity. We'll discover how committing can feel like a terrifying free fall and learn strategies to navigate these intense emotions. I'll share insights from coaching sessions, emphasizing the importance of going all in to find personal empowerment and growth. Wheth…
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One Choice at a Time | Ep #167
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23:49Join Andrea in episode 167 of the Heal From Infidelity podcast as she explores the power of making choices, one at a time. Discover how each decision, big or small, can shape your life and lead to personal growth and healing. Andrea shares personal reflections from her busy Thanksgiving weekend, including the importance of advocating for oneself an…
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True Crime: Susan Smith, murdered her own children
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15:53A True Cheater Crime Story: In 1994, Susan Smith from South Carolina murdered her two sons because her Affair Partner didn't want a relationship with a woman who has children. This is my first episode of trying these types of stories. I plan to do at least one or two a month. There are likely thousands of murders in the USA that are connected to in…
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The Gifts of Uncertainty | Ep #166
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29:55In this episode, Andrea shares personal experiences and insights that show how letting go of the need for certainty can lead to profound personal growth and self-discovery. She discusses the costs of clinging to the familiar and the steps needed to embrace the unknown, offering listeners a pathway to rebuild self-trust and create a life filled with…
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Escapism and Infidelity | Ep #165
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28:45In this episode, Andrea delves into the complex relationship between escapism and infidelity. Discover why individuals turn to escapism, how it manifests in both betrayed and betraying partners, and the long-term impact on relationships. Andrea offers insights into identifying escapism tendencies, confronting them, and fostering personal growth and…
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Compilation Terms: People
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35:35These terms describe individuals and groups of people in relation to infidelity. They are essential as they help everyone understand the phrases used in conversations, podcasts, support groups, and therapy. You may know the feeling, but not the words in which this compilation may help the betrayed when talking to others. Maybe the cheaters themselv…
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The Price of Judgment | Ep #164
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25:24Andrea explores the profound impact of judgment on relationships, especially in the aftermath of infidelity. Discover how judgment can hinder healing and connection, and learn the difference between judgment and discernment. Andrea discusses empathy and self-compassion as powerful tools to overcome judgment and foster communication. Whether you're …
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FREE CLASS! Friday, November 15, 2024 10:00 am MT / 12:00 pm ET Join us for a special class on navigating and trigger-proofing your holidays, hosted by Andrea! This last-minute session is set for Friday, November 15th at 10:00 AM Mountain Time. Can't make it live? No worries! The class will be recorded, and you can catch the replay. Act fast, as ex…
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Technology and Infidelity | Ep #163
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26:02In this episode, Andrea delves into the intricate relationship between technology and infidelity. Discover how the digital age has transformed the landscape of relationships, presenting both challenges and opportunities for healing. Andrea shares insights on setting digital boundaries, differentiating between surveillance and privacy, and the impor…
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Blame Shifting by the Betrayed
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12:52It's common for the Betrayed to blameshift the cheating onto others,. rather than their partner who has cheated on them. --> Message the CoachNSB Coach által
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REPLAY | The First Step To Getting Out Of Secrecy - Find And Create Safe Spaces
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12:02Sister, this episode has the MOST downloads of all time, so I know that it resonates with many of you! Are you stuck in an affair and wondering how to get out? Who can I talk to, and where can I go where I won’t be judged or feel shame? Let me reassure you now- not everyone gets access to your heart and story! Today I dive into the very FIRST step …
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Introduction: November 2024
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13:40I'm a life coach, starting a new podcast to help betrayed people who are dealing with infidelity. I am looking for one-on-one conversations with betrayed people, this is coming soon. --> Message the CoachNSB Coach által
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What Healing Really Looks Like | Ep #162
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17:53In this episode, Andrea delves into the profound journey of healing from betrayal. Through personal anecdotes and insightful reflections, she explores the expectations versus the reality of healing, emphasizing the importance of self-compassion and resilience. Andrea shares a poignant story about a dream that reignited past emotions and uses it as …
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66 | Lessons a Fitness Coach Taught Me About My Healing Journey
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13:53I have ONE 1:1 coaching spot available- Let's connect! (www.forms.gle/fpuCrJMTfHH33PoL6) Friend, if you follow my Instagram stories (@kristinajoycoaching) then you know I've begun working with a fitness coach. I've worked with personal trainers before, but in this season of life, it's hitting differently. Having walked through several years of a he…
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Betrayal and New Trust | Ep #161
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31:46Join Andrea as she delves into the complex journey from betrayal to rebuilding trust. This episode offers tactical insights and real-life examples to help listeners understand the dynamics of trust after infidelity. Andrea references Brene Brown's "Atlas of the Heart" to explore the emotions tied to betrayal and trust, emphasizing the need for acco…
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65 | I Wish My Friends Knew These 8 Things About Life With An Affair
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14:36I have ONE 1:1 coaching spot available- Let's connect! (www.forms.gle/fpuCrJMTfHH33PoL6) Sister, today's episode is unique because I want you to think about sharing it with a friend. Is there something you wish your friend knew about your marriage or affair? Or is there something you want them to understand now that it's in your past? These are my …
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What's Possible After Infidelity | Ep #160
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29:53Join Andrea as she explores the transformative possibilities that await after infidelity. Through real-life client stories, Andrea sheds light on the healing journey and the potential for personal growth and stronger relationships. Discover how courageous individuals have navigated betrayal, rebuilt trust, and emerged more confident and connected. …
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64 | 5 Lies I Believed During And After My Affair
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15:03I have TWO 1:1 coaching spots available- Let's connect! (www.forms.gle/fpuCrJMTfHH33PoL6) Friend, I'm getting honest here and sharing a few of the lies I believed during and after my affair. In my healing journey, I've learned to 1) become aware of my thoughts and 2) repent of the lies I come into agreement with. SHAME wants to keep you hiding. I'm…
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Bonus - Patreon Exclusive - Eddie
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27:58Please enjoy a special Patreon episode about Eddie. The podcast "Raw Truth: Stories of Female Infidelity" will be ceasing new episodes at the end of October 2024,and Patreon exclusives, at the end of 2024. However, previously published episodes will continue to be accessible to new listeners, allowing them to still engage with the content. Thank yo…
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Is Anger Holding You Back? | Ep #159
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23:48Andrea delves into the complex emotion of anger and its impact on personal growth. Discover how anger can serve as both a warning signal and a barrier to healing, and learn practical strategies to channel this emotion into positive action. Whether you're struggling with boundaries, resentment, or fear, this episode offers insights to help you move …
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63 | What Stories Are You Telling Yourself? You're Creating Your Feelings
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13:30I still have TWO coach-in-your-back-pocket spots in October! Let's connect! (https://forms.gle/fpuCrJMTfHH33PoL6) Have you ever stopped to consider the thoughts and stories you let race through your brain all day? Can you answer the question, What are you thinking about your marriage? Or the affair? Or yourself? I want to challenge you to consider …
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Changing Your Mind | Ep #158
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17:26In this episode, Andrea explores the concept of changing your mind, its challenges, and benefits. She shares a story about Terry Real, a well-known therapist, who publicly retracted a previous statement, demonstrating humility and growth. Andrea discusses common obstacles like cognitive biases and the sunk-cost fallacy, which prevent individuals fr…
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62 | Stop Lying To Yourself: Honesty Is Kindness
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15:19I'm opening up THREE coach-in-your-back-pocket spots in October! Let's connect! (https://forms.gle/fpuCrJMTfHH33PoL6) One of the greatest pieces of advice I've been given on my journey is: Honesty is kindness. It took me a while to grow into that, but when I did, it radically changed things for me. It all starts with honesty. Yes, speaking truth in…
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Karla shares her story of her affair with a co-worker and what happens when her husband finds out. If you have been wanting to submit your story, now is the time. I have a few more dates available to stream for 2024 as well as in 2025. Sources for todays article: https://worriedlovers.com/why-do-women-cheat-pl1/?s1=[s1]&s2=[s2]&s3=[s3]&s4=[s4]&utm_…
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Your Bottom Line | Ep #157
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21:16In this episode, Andrea explores the concept of "your bottom line" and how it plays a crucial role in the healing process after experiencing infidelity. She shares real-life examples from her clients and her own journey, illustrating how identifying and adhering to your bottom line can provide clarity and empowerment. She discusses the importance o…
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61 | My Top 3 Favorite Bible Verses After My Affair
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15:09ONE spot left to begin coaching in September! Let's connect HERE! One of the biggest lessons I learned after confessing my affair and beginning my healing journey was that God wasn't interested in an agenda. He was not in a hurry for me to heal. He was after my heart, and He wanted me to slow down enough to hear Him. So what did I do while 3 kids w…
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Your Relationship to Trauma | Ep #156
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24:48In this empowering episode, Andrea delves into the complex topic of your relationship to trauma. Andrea shares personal stories and professional insights to help you understand and redefine your relationship with trauma, especially in the context of infidelity. She challenges the conventional narrative that trauma must be a lifelong burden and offe…
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60 | I Really Miss My Affair Partner. What Should I Do About That?
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15:48ONE spot left for coaching in September! Let's connect HERE! One thing I hear often is some rendition of "I really miss my affair partner, and what can I do about it?" First I'm here to tell you- it's a completely normal response. And the good news is, you don't have to stay stuck in that feeling! Let's chat today about how your feelings stem from …
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On the conclusion of Heathers story, we find out where she stands with her marriage to John and her affair partner Mark. If you have been wanting to submit your story, now is the time. I have a few more dates available to stream for 2024. Send me YOUR story!!! I am accepting new stories for 2024 and 2025. The longer you wait to send, the later in t…
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