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WE ANSWER THE HOW, WHEN AND HOW! HOW DO YOU PHYSICALLY, EMOTIONALLY AND/OR MENTALLY RECOVER FROM DIVORCE? DO YOU WAIT UNTIL THE DIVORCE PROCESS IS OVER THEN DO YOU START TO HEAL? WE SAY NO! DIVORCE RECOVERY CAN START IN ALL PHASES OF YOUR DIVORCE - EVEN IN THE PRE-PHASE! THIS IS A PODCAST ABOUT REAL PEOPLE TALKING ABOUT REAL DIVORCE RECOVERY NO MATTER WHAT PHASE YOU ARE IN - HEALING AND MOVING ON TO YOUR NEW REALITY!! If you need to make an informed decision about your divorce recovery and n ...
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Guest time! Welcome Junie Moon to the show. She is a Global Love Mentor, author, speaker and a Certified Shadow Work Coach. Her superpower is helping people unpack their past and move onto a better future. Discussions of the movie Ghost, unpack and heal from the past, risk manager, hopelessness, space junk and dating research. This is not an episod…
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In this episode of Divorce Devil, David and Rachel delve into the complexities of co-parenting and blended family dynamics. They discuss the challenges of introducing new partners into the parenting equation, the importance of setting boundaries, and the necessity of open communication. The conversation highlights the need for respect and understan…
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In this episode, David and Rachel discuss the complexities of co-parenting after divorce, sharing both positive experiences and challenges. With concentrating on 5 negative and 5 positive things that involve co-parenting, they emphasize the importance of communication, understanding children's perspectives, and maintaining boundaries. The conversat…
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In this episode of Divorce Devil, hosts Rachel and David discuss the importance of self-reflection and the lessons learned from their experiences with divorce. They explore the complexities of relationships, the harsh realities of financial independence post-divorce, and the necessity of owning one's responsibilities. The conversation emphasizes th…
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Social media during divorce recovery. Rachel says be smart and I say don’t do it - take a break. It never turns out well, most of the time. So many people have an opinion on social media and divorce. I have heard of instances where social media can be used in a divorce proceeding. So, buyer beware! Discussions of clearing the trash, celebrity divor…
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Well, here it is again. The craziness of the Divorce Devil Podcast. We take off with starting with the notion of no control in your divorce or divorce recovery to road construction. Never a dull moment. You’ll be hard pressed to find a more ‘unique’ divorce recovery podcast. Topics of round-a-bouts, loss of control is like chaos, you get a pony, To…
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Well, it is another interesting podcast by the two of us. Owning your sh*t encompasses so much. We mainly came from the way of it’s ok not to be ok. You are going through some epic sh*t for the first time and how you react at first might not be the best reaction, but you learn over time and adjust accordingly. Our other point is everyone is not you…
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Well, it happened again. We went off the rails again during a podcast. We realize the initial pain of divorce is sometimes so overwhelming and intense. Our own experiences play a part here. All we can do is present what we went through and hopefully some of you can identify with it and realize some of your thoughts, actions and/or feelings are comp…
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Well, here it is - the New 5 Minute Subject Slam with Rachel and David. She doesn't know the subjects until I start the timer. Let's see how it goes! Co-parenting Boundaries Practicing what you preach We are real Love when your kids leave, it's ok Girls night out Don't be petty Bi-polar Don't use the kids as pawns They feel guilty Try to make it wo…
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Closing up the three part series of the Divorce Recovery Survival Guide was fun as always. Getting a little off tract, like we do, we do understand that the third phase is actually where most of serious healing starts. Discussions of Stella getting her groove back, hoe phase, don’t sit in the silence, no is a complete sentence, ‘I’m done’ is a boun…
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Well, here it is - the meat and potatoes of the middle of your divorce journey. We love doing these multiple part episodes. We tend to have something for everyone! Plus, without much preparation and after over 180 shows, our OJT advice, tips, trick and methods are flowing throughout the show. Discussions of legal separation, divorce permits, ride t…
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Well, here it is - what to do when the divorce is fresh or hasn’t even started yet. Even though we are not professional therapist, we have a list of things, looking back, we wished we would have know about and/or done. We would ask for forgiveness with the crazy start -but that is just part of the show. That’s the way it starts sometimes! Discussio…
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Believe it or not, this is the first show we have dedicated to boundaries. We all have been there. Not enough at first then maybe too much in the end. It is definitely problematic when healing. Discussions of your truths, accepting my sh*t wholeheartedly, Everybody is not your friend, they know my blood type, and start with the walls up all are bro…
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This is a continuation from the last podcast of forgiveness, contentment and happy. This is final prize - accepting your new reality. I know it is hard to fathom that for some people. Discussions of not letting the past define you, pay attention to your past, see you next Tuesday, don’t be afraid to ask for help, we only have one life. There off-th…
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How do we start? Talking about the complex relationship between forgiveness, contentment and happy was a tough one. We still agree that forgiveness still have a not giving a f*ck component. Discussions of waiting for someone’s sorry, forgetting time is a thing, Soul Train, See you next Tuesday, communication, heal in hell, grudges take a lot of wor…
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Sorry for the two week hiatus. Rachel was vacationing and I was down right lazy! But we are back with another electrified session. Friendships - before, during, and after your divorce…. What a such complicated subject. We discussed topics of tour or tour, no stake in the game - judge away, trifecta - friends before, during and after, unrealistic ex…
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Well, here it is! The final installment of the Divorce Storm. And with all its collateral damage. Your life is definitely changed - what you probably perceive as no for the better. But, this is your time to finally realize you have to embrace this time and the efforts of the storm showing you the path to your new positive reality. There may be smal…
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Well, here it is! Part two of the series. In this podcast, we discuss the challenges and unpredictability of going through a divorce. Using the metaphor of a storm to describe the emotional turmoil and chaos that can occur during the process. Watch out for the calm eye, it sometimes sends a false sense of security of the process. Discussions of: AB…
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Here we go with another series. We actually love doing this. Part one of the three part series of the Divorce Storm - getting your sandbags ready. With all the three stages of divorce being important, this one is significant - it can lay the foundation for your recovery later. But, you are not ‘married’ to it. You can still recover with missteps in…
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In this episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast, David and Rachel interview therapist Dawn Wiggins, a licensed marriage and family therapist who shares her holistic approach to helping people recover from divorce. They discuss topics such as childhood trauma, the importance of failure in the recovery process, loneliness, and the role of grace in heali…
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Well, what can we say? That’s quite a mouthful - uncommunicated expectations are premeditated resentments! Rachel takes the reigns early and we finally come back to earth. Communication is the key in this podcast. It’s just that simple….. DO IT! Discussions of: Get thehings Rachel’s birthday Men and women communicate differently Rachel is a planner…
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So, I took my spare time to create the new eBook ‘It’s OK to Hate Your Ex’. It took a while to complete it. It’s way different than people think it would be. Rachel and I discuss the book and a bunch of other things - as we do! Discussions of long term relationships count too, fertilizer stinks, give yourself grace to heal, people do better and ‘yo…
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This is the most impromptu podcast we have tried as of yet. We both came to the studio with no plans of a topic and pulled one out of the sky. And, it turned out pretty well. Guild and blame can derail your divorce recovery in many ways. Conversations of self-retrospection, guilt can enable you, it’s ok to take some blame and be wrong sometimes, an…
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One of our favorite subjects… the X factor. In our divorce recoveries we have both experienced different X factors. We do agree that you have some sort of compass in order to start healing, and that X factor(s) are them. What is yours?? Discussions of: Finding your funny Co-parenting dogs Can’t let her win Pulled the trigger twice Looking down the …
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It’s another fun Divorce Devil Podcast. Our subject today is the interesting wins and fails in dating during divorce recovery. So many things to cover here. We feel we only scratched the surface. Discussions of you are never really ready to date, phone a friend, there is always some baggage, Rachel swiped her thumbs raw and you need to go through t…
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Well, we are finally at the last episode of the 10 part series of feeling better in your divorce recovery. It is so important to celebrate you every now and then. You deserve it! Taking time for you is paramount. Your value is intrinsic even though you take one step forward and two steps back sometimes. We hope that the 10 part series was of some v…
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We are almost done with the 10 part feeling better in your divorce recovery. Today is day 9 and it’s all about owning your divorce story. We feel you should not be ashamed of your divorced status and we provide tips not to. Your divorce story becomes less important as time goes on. We also discuss how the perception of our own divorce stories has c…
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Day 8 people - are you learning from your past? We feel that it is so important to do just that. You need to reflect on what your marriage has taught you (good or bad), don’t let the past define you and on your journal prompt…. What do you need to leave behind? What version of your past do you tell people? We agree that letting things go, eventuall…
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In this episode, David and Rachel discuss the financial changes that occur after divorce. They share personal experiences and insights on topics such as living a comfortable life, making financial decisions as a couple, and considering the future. They also discuss the challenges of surviving financially after divorce, the importance of financial a…
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In this episode, we discuss the topics of anger and embracing change in the context of divorce recovery. While exploring the positive aspects of anger and how it can be used as fuel for personal growth, we also discuss the concept of venting anger in a controlled environment, such as a smash room. Rachel and I emphasize the importance of processing…
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In this episode, David and Rachel discuss the importance of establishing and expanding your support tribe during and after divorce. They talk about the different roles people play in your village and the need for both positive and negative influences. While emphasizing the importance of letting go of unhealthy friendships and evolving your village …
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Here we come again with day three of the challenge. The subject of self-care is one that is near and dear to our hearts. Unless you’ve been under a rock, LOL, you’ll know that it is a subject that is precious to us. As we introduce the concept of the 'F*ck-It Bucket' as a way to let go of things that don't serve you - we also emphasize the need to …
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David and Rachel are podcasting about day two of the ten day challenge to feel better in your divorce recovery. Day two deals with your new beginnings. In this episode of the Divorce Devil podcast, David and Rachel discuss the process of envisioning a positive future after divorce. They share their personal experiences of healing and processing, em…
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This is the first episode of ten podcasts that deal with the total healing, wellness and moving on after your divorce and during your recovery. Emotions is the biggy. They hit you when you least expect it and sometimes keep cycling around. We discuss the importance of journaling and processing emotions, as well as finding outlets for emotions such …
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We or I have to apologize for the dad jokes on divorce at the beginning of the show. Rachel needed some pep in her step after a few trying days with the kiddos at the school. So, we start with jokes but dive into the realm of our favorite topic: Forgiveness (AKA - giving no f*cks). We think this is the third go around with this subject so you know …
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How do we explain this episode? Mixing Back to the Future and Divorce Recovery? Oil and vinegar? Oil and water? WTF - Let’s see what happens. What is the worst that can happen except for it will make some of you think. I pulled this title and subject earlier this week and Rachel agreed to it. Interesting! It’s all about what would you change, small…
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In this episode, Rachel and I discuss the four people or groups of people who helped them survive their divorce and push through their divorce recovery. Joking about the presidents on Mount Rushmore, we delve into the importance of self-care and breaking generational curses. We also discuss the support of loved ones, the role of children in divorce…
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In this episode, We discuss the concept of a new year as a fresh start and how it relates to the process of divorce recovery. While emphasizing the importance of letting go of the past and the need to go through the emotions, motions, and challenges of divorce in order to heal and move forward we also discuss the significance of self-discovery, set…
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In this episode, David and Rachel recap the year 2023 and discuss their top episodes. They also talk about setting divorce resolutions and the importance of setting boundaries with adult children. While diving into the topic of combating narcissism in divorce and recovery, as well as coping with emotions and practicing self-care, they address commo…
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December 23rd is Festivus, a fictional and secular holiday made famous by the show ‘Seinfeld’. It includes airing of grievances, feats of strength, an aluminum pole, a dinner and miracles. Thinking about airing the grievances against those who you feel have wronged you in your divorce - truly relates to the spirit of Festivus. Sometimes you have to…
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Rachel and David discuss strategies for getting through the holiday season after divorce - again. DD151 started the talk and this podcast will close it out. They also discuss setting boundaries, the importance of self-care, the lack of Christmas spirit, creating new traditions, and finding ways to honor your feelings. They also encourage acts of ki…
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David and Rachel discuss their experiences with loneliness after divorce. They talk about how the feeling of loneliness can start before the divorce is finalized and continue even after leaving the marital home. They emphasize the importance of reaching out to others and seeking support during this challenging time. They also discuss unhealthy copi…
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David and Rachel are the hosts of the Divorced Devil Podcast, a show that provides a humorous and honest take on divorce recovery. They share their own experiences and insights to help others navigate the challenges of divorce and find healing. In this episode of the Divorced Devil Podcast, David and Rachel discuss the pros and cons of dating durin…
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Rachel and David discuss the positive aspects of divorce recovery and how it can lead to personal growth and a positive future vision. They talk about the importance of self-discovery, fostering resilience, and finding motivation during the difficult process of divorce. Rachel shares her own experience of finding her identity and learning to be pos…
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Rachel and David are hosts of the Divorce Devil Podcast, where they share their personal experiences and insights on navigating divorce and co-parenting. They provide support and advice to individuals going through divorce, helping them overcome the challenges and find happiness in their new lives. Summary: Rachel and David discuss the challenges o…
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In this episode, David and Rachel discuss the topic of "gray divorce," which refers to divorces that occur later in life, typically among individuals who are 50 years old and above. They explore the unique aspects of gray divorce, such as the reasons behind it, including growing apart, wanting more independence, and a desire to explore new experien…
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David and Rachel discuss common misconceptions about divorce recovery after the age of 40. They emphasize that finding love again is possible at any age and that companionship can be found in various ways. They also debunk the belief that the grief from divorce will last forever and highlight the importance of healing and moving forward. The hosts …
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Rachel and David discuss the challenges of maintaining a relationship with an ex-spouse and navigating shared friendships and events after divorce. They share personal experiences and offer practical advice on managing these situations while prioritizing healing and civility. **Key Takeaways:** - Divorce can be especially challenging when there are…
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David and Rachel are the hosts of the Divorce Devil Podcast, where they discuss various aspects of divorce recovery and provide advice and support to those going through the process. Summary: David and Rachel discuss the topic of hate during and after divorce. They explore how anger can be both positive and negative, and how it can motivate individ…
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About The Hosts: David and Rachel are the hosts of the Divorce Devil podcast, a local podcast in Colorado Springs that aims to help people heal from divorce while adding their humorous flair. They share their personal experiences and provide advice and support to those going through or just out of a divorce. Summary: In this episode, David and Rach…
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