EP#172: What Happens When Men Allow Pleasure

The Open Bedroom Podcast

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The Fear of Admitting Desire (00:00:02)

Discussion on toxic masculinity and men's discomfort in expressing their desires.

Introduction to the Episode (00:00:36)

Jennifer welcomes Jason and introduces the topic of pleasure in men's sex lives.

Father's Day Story Begins (00:01:24)

Jason shares his Father's Day experience and the plans made with his wife.

Exploring New Dynamics (00:02:55)

Jason reflects on the typical sexual routine and the desire to try something different.

The Role of the "Commander" (00:03:19)

Discussion on Jason's usual dominance in their sexual encounters and his nickname.

Incorporating Sensory Play (00:05:03)

Jason describes the introduction of sensory play tools in their intimate life.

Transformative Sensory Experience (00:06:10)

Jason details the sensations he experienced during the sensory play with his wife.

Edging and Intense Stimulation (00:08:05)

Jason explains the prolonged stimulation and its effect on his experience.

The Best Orgasm of His Life (00:08:50)

Jason shares the outcome of their session, highlighting its intensity and pleasure.

Guilt and Shared Pleasure (00:09:10)

Post-experience guilt leads to a conversation about mutual enjoyment in pleasure.

The Importance of Eye Contact (00:12:03)

Discussion on the significance of being seen and making eye contact during intimacy.

Vulnerability in Intimacy (00:13:10)

Exploration of vulnerability when allowing a partner to give pleasure.

Advice for Partners (00:14:16)

Encouragement for women to initiate conversations about pleasure with their partners.

Scheduling Relationship Dynamics (00:15:45)

Jennifer shares the benefits of scheduling different types of intimate experiences.

Balancing Spontaneity and Planning (00:17:29)

Discussion on finding a balance between spontaneous and scheduled intimate time.

Communication and Trust (00:18:58)

Importance of open communication in exploring new dynamics in relationships.

Using Storytelling to Communicate (00:21:05)

Jason shares how he used storytelling to introduce new ideas to his wife.

Final Advice for Men (00:22:52)

Encouragement for men to be open to receiving pleasure and not just giving.

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