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Hark | 8 | The Queen's English 30:00

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Living together in a group is a strategy many animals use to survive and thrive. And a big part of what makes that living situation successful is listening. In this episode, we explore the collaborative world of the naked mole-rat. Threshold is nonprofit, listener-supported, and independently produced. You can support Threshold by donating today . To stay connected, sign up for our newsletter . Operation frog sound! Send us your frog sounds for an upcoming episode. We want you to go out, listen for frogs and toads, and record them. Just find someone croaking, and hit record on your phone. It doesn’t matter if there’s background noise. It doesn’t even matter if you’re not sure whether or not you’re hearing an amphibian—if you think you are, we would love to get a recording from you. Please also say your name and where you are in the world, and then email the recording to us at outreach@thresholdpodcast.org…

The Autism Mom Coach

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Do you sometimes feel like your life has been hijacked by Autism? If so, this is the podcast for you. The Autism Mom Coach is a podcast for moms who feel overwhelmed, afraid, and sometimes powerless as they raise their child with Autism. Join your host, Lisa Candera, Certified Life Coach, lawyer, and (more importantly) full-time single mom to a teenage boy with Autism as she shares cognitive-based tools and trauma-informed strategies you can use to feel better now and transform your relationship with Autism and special needs parenting. The truth is, Autism is not in charge of your life, YOU are, and you have more power than you think. Visit theautismmomcoach.com for more information

165 epizódok

#Fitness #Parenting #Podcasting Education #Kids And Families #Self-Improvement #Mental Health #Lisa Candera

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165 epizódok

#Fitness #Parenting #Podcasting Education #Kids And Families #Self-Improvement #Mental Health #Lisa Candera

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Ep 162: Being on Display - The Truth About Autism Acceptance 14:56

4 napja14:56

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It’s April—Autism Awareness and Acceptance Month—and today, we’re talking about what autism acceptance really looks like in real life. Have you ever felt like all eyes are on you when you're in public with your child? Whether it’s the school drop-off line, the grocery store, or waiting in line at Chipotle, those moments when your child’s behavior stands out can feel like you’re center stage in a performance you never auditioned for. In this episode, I share my own experience of what it means to be on display as the parent of a child with autism—and how my mindset has shifted from shame and over-apologizing to pride and advocacy. You’ll hear: Why being "on display" used to feel like failure to me What changed over time as I redefined what autism acceptance looks like The story of a school drop-off panic that left me feeling exposed and mortified Why I stopped apologizing for my child’s autism A powerful moment on an Amtrak train that reminded me what true inclusion looks like Three practical tips to feel more grounded when you’re “that family” Whether your child is melting down at the playground or wearing a Paw Patrol shirt at 15, these moments are opportunities—not for hiding—but for showing up and modeling what support, advocacy, and love look like in action. Remember: Autism acceptance starts with us. Resources & Links: 🎧 Want support navigating these moments in real time? Schedule your complimentary consultation here: https://talkwiththeautismmomcoach.as.me /…

The Autism Mom Coach

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Autism Masking: When "Doing Well" is Actually Struggling 9:01

11 napja9:01

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Have you ever had teachers insist your child is thriving at school, yet at home, they fall apart? This episode explores autism masking—when autistic children hide their natural behaviors to appear neurotypical. Learn why masking happens, the heavy emotional and sensory toll it takes, and practical steps you can take to support your child. In this episode, you'll discover: What autism masking is and the reasons children engage in it, including avoiding bullying, negative consequences, and internalized shame. How masking can mislead educators into thinking your child doesn't need support. Why People Think My Child ISN’T Autistic - The Coke Bottle Effect Explained by autistic advocate Orion Kelly. Key signs your child might be masking, such as drastic behavioral differences between school and home, frequent bathroom breaks, increased stimming, and physical complaints. Work with Me: If you're feeling caught between pushing your child forward and holding back to prevent overwhelm, schedule your complimentary consultation today and let's create a plan to support both you and your child effectively. Book Your Complimentary Consultation HERE.…

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160. The IEP Trap: Why Progress Isn’t an Excuse to Cut Support 21:08

18 napja21:08

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My blood boils every time I see it—the IEP trap. It usually shows up as a proud post from an autism parent: “My child is doing so well that the school reduced their IEP support!” Sounds like progress, right? Wrong. The harsh reality is this: a child’s progress is not a reason to remove supports—it’s proof that those supports are working. Unfortunately, I learned this the hard way. In this episode, I’m breaking down: What the IEP trap really is. The real reasons it happens. What you can do to protect your child’s services and mental health. If you’ve ever been told your child’s progress means they don’t need as much help, this episode is for you. Tune in and get the clarity you need to keep advocating for your child’s true needs. Want more support? Book your complimentary consultation call here: https://talkwiththeautismmomcoach.as.me/…

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159. How to Stop Taking Your Child's Behaviors Personally 15:35

25 napja15:35

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Your child screams, ignores you, or lashes out—and it feels personal. But here’s the truth: it’s not about you. Their behavior is a reflection of what’s happening in their nervous system, not a measure of their respect or love for you. In this episode , I’ll teach you how to: Understand why we take our child’s behavior personally (and why it’s a natural response). Recognize what happens in your brain when you get triggered—and how to stop reacting. Break the cycle of co-escalation and become a calming presence for your child. Develop a new response strategy so you can stay in control, regulate your own emotions, and actually help your child. When you shift your mindset, everything changes. You will stop feeling like your child’s behavior is an attack and start responding in ways that help them feel safe and supported. Want more support? Book your complimentary consultation call here: https://talkwiththeautismmomcoach.as.me/…

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158. From Frozen and Afraid to Calm and Confident with Rachael Eerdmans 31:37

5 weeks31:37

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Are school struggles leaving you feeling defeated and overwhelmed as an Autism parent? You’re not alone. In this episode, I talk with Rachael, an Autism mom and my coaching client, who transformed her own experience of her child’s school challenges in just a few weeks. By changing how she thought and felt about behavior struggles, bus issues, and meltdowns, she went from feeling ashamed and exhausted to confident and in control—without changing her son or his school. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: The biggest mindset shift that helped Rachael stop feeling ashamed of her son’s behavior How she built confidence as an Autism parent and became a stronger advocate for her child Simple but powerful strategies that helped her navigate school struggles with less stress If you’ve ever wondered: How do I handle my child’s school challenges without feeling defeated? Why do school struggles impact me so much? What can I do to support my autistic child and take care of myself? This episode is for you! Tune in now.…

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157. Separating Your Child’s Behavior from Your Thoughts (MVP) 9:14

6 weeks9:14

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I’m sure you’ve realized by now, no matter how hard we try, we can’t control our children’s behaviors. However, we can choose how we want to think about them. That might not sound particularly powerful, but trust me when I say it’s a real gamechanger.

The Autism Mom Coach

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156. When Your Kid Says Mean Things 11:45

7 weeks11:45

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We all wanted our kids to talk. We persisted, we prayed, and we paid for them to learn this skill. And now… they have it. But sometimes, that means hearing words that **sting**. “I hate you!” “That was terrible.” “You’re annoying.” After all that effort to help them communicate, **this** is what we get? It can feel like a punch to the gut. But here’s what I want you to remember: * it’s not personal. In this episode of *The Autism Mom Coach*, we’re breaking down: Why autistic kids communicate so bluntly (and why it’s not the same as being rude). How to stop taking their words personally—so you can respond, not react. The simple mindset shifts that help you decode what they *actually* mean. Why staying calm matters more than forcing politeness. Tune in now to learn how to handle these moments with more understanding, less stress, and a whole lot more patience.*…

The Autism Mom Coach

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155. Married to Autism 18:22

8 weeks18:22

18:22

Many of my clients have had this moment: “Wait… I think my husband is autistic.” Maybe it’s how literal he is. Maybe he hates socializing, disappears at family gatherings, or doesn’t pick up on emotional cues. And then there’s this—when you say *“I’m fine”*… * he actually believes you. At first, it’s a relief—finally, an explanation! But then comes the frustration, the sadness, the overwhelm. What does this mean for your relationship? For your emotional connection? For the life you imagined? In this episode, I’m breaking down: The emotional rollercoaster of realizing your spouse might be autistic. Why a diagnosis—*or his agreement with it*—doesn’t actually change your relationship. How your *thoughts* about him shape your experience more than anything else. Why even small efforts can be meaningful (if you choose to see them that way). The difference between accepting your spouse *as he is* and settling for less than what you want.If this is something you’ve been grappling with, you’re not alone. Tune in now for real talk, practical shifts, and a new way of looking at your relationship. Listen now on *The Autism Mom Coach*!*…

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154. The Gift 9:29

9 weeks9:29

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In this week's episode, I am sharing with you one of my favorite poems. It is called “The Gift” by Dr. Shefali Tsabary, a clinical psychologist and author who teaches that children **aren’t here for us to "fix"—they are here to teach us**. And who knows this more than Autism parents? Tune in now to hear The Gift and how you can apply it to your Autism parenting journey today. The Gift Dr. Shefali Tsabary…

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153. Listener Q&A - Teaching Patience 14:59

10 weeks14:59

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In this episode, I’m answering a listener’s question: How can I teach my child patience—and how can I become a more patient parent? Patience isn’t something we’re born with—it’s a skill. And like any skill, it can be learned and improved with intention. But here’s the key: If you want to teach your child patience, you need to model it first. I’ll walk you through practical strategies to: Build your own patience so you can demonstrate it in everyday moments Set SMART, achievable goals to help your child develop patience step by step Use tools like timers and narration to make waiting more predictable Reinforce patience with positive support—not pressure If you ever feel like patience is impossible in your home, this episode is for you. Tune in to learn simple, actionable steps to help both you and your child build this essential skill. Ready to take this work deeper? Book a free consult with me at talkwiththeautismmomcoach.as.me .…

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152. Anticipatory Anxiety 10:56

11 weeks10:56

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Ever find yourself running through worst-case scenarios like, “What if my child has a meltdown in public?” or “What if I’m missing something critical?” This is anticipatory anxiety. It’s that relentless “what if” loop that keeps you stuck in fear, bracing for problems that haven’t even happened yet. In this week’s episode of The Autism Mom Coach, I’m breaking down what anticipatory anxiety really is, how it shows up in your life, and why it’s stealing your energy. Plus, I’ll teach you a powerful strategy called positive projection to stop the cycle and start parenting with more confidence. Don’t forget—my free webinar, “Stop Walking on Eggshells and Start Parenting with Confidence,” is happening tomorrow. I’ll go even deeper into how to break free from bracing for your child’s emotions. Register through the link here or my Instagram bio.…

The Autism Mom Coach

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151. The Hidden Cost of Walking on Eggshells 7:50

12 weeks7:50

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In this episode, we dive into the hidden costs of walking on eggshells as an Autism parent. I share my personal experience and insights from working with families across the country who struggle with this issue. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://theautismmomcoach.com/151…

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150. Walking on Eggshells (MVP) 11:17

13 weeks11:17

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I'm shining a bright light on what it really means to walk on eggshells as an Autism parent. I share insights on how this impacts both you and your child, and most importantly, I provide actionable strategies to help you break free from this draining cycle. Get ready to reclaim your confidence and learn how to parent from a place of calm and stability. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://theautismmomcoach.com/150…

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149. Reflect, Without Regret 11:01

14 weeks11:01

11:01

Learn how to identify the limiting beliefs and stories that are holding you back, and how to reframe your thinking to find the opportunities for growth and progress. I also share some of the ways I help my coaching clients use reflection to create new patterns and strategies for themselves and their children. If you're ready to leave regret behind and embrace a fresh perspective, this episode is for you! Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://theautismmomcoach.com/149…

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148. How Coaching Changes Everything (MVP) 15:39

15 weeks15:39

15:39

I revisit the important topic of how coaching changes everything, helping you make the progress in your life that you really want to see. Tune in this week to discover how coaching changes the game for Autism parents. I share my own story of finding a coach who truly understands Autism and my experience as a Special Needs parent, and you’ll learn the foundational tools that helped me really embrace what coaching has to offer. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://theautismmomcoach.com/148…

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