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Together, we're redefining what it means, looks and feels like, to be doing "woman's work" in the world today. With confidence and the occasional rant. From boardrooms to studios, kitchens to coding dens, we explore the multifaceted experiences of today's woman, confirming that the new definition of "woman's work" is whatever feels authentic, true, and right for you. We're shedding expectations, setting aside the "shoulds", giving our finger to the "supposed tos". We're torching the old playbook and writing our own rules. Who runs the world? You decide. Learn more at nicolekalil.com

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The Splitting Smart Podcast is your go-to guide for resolving divorce and other disputes outside the courtroom. Join top mediator and seasoned family law attorney Kelly Bennett, with over 30 years in the trenches, along with her team at Sapere Law & Mediation. Kelly and the Sapere Pros dive into practical strategies to help professionals like you navigate the complexities of divorce, custody, and conflict resolution with intelligence and empathy. Learn how to save time, protect your privacy, and cut costs through mediation, negotiation, and arbitration. Tune in to transform your conflict into an efficient, empowered path forward.

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Heartbreak or Hormones? How HRT Could Save Your Marriage (Part 2) Ep 59 19:12

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Text us your feedback or questions - we'd love to hear from you. Feel like something’s “off?" It might not be you—it might be your hormones. I’m back with Dr. Diana Hoppe—OB/GYN, hormone expert, and breast cancer survivor—to get into what most doctors still aren’t telling you about hormone therapy. We’re talking about foggy thinking, the myths around hormone replacement theory, and what you can do to feel like yourself again. If you’ve ever asked, “What’s happening to me?.... You’re going to want to listen to this episode. Here’s what we get into: Why brain fog is not something you “just have to deal with” What really happened with that HRT study in the early 2000s Dr. Hoppe’s own breast cancer story What your OB/GYN might not be trained to look for How men can help their partners during perimenopause Natural ways to reset your system through supplements How to find the right doctor who actually listens It's time to stop blaming yourself—and start getting answers that actually help. About Dr. Diana: Dr. Diana Hoppe is a board-certified OB/GYN, best-selling author, and total rockstar when it comes to helping women feel like themselves again. She is the founder of AmazingOver40.com, a telemedicine platform focused on hormone balance and women’s wellness. RESOURCES: DR. DIANA'S WEBSITE: https://amazingover40.com DR. DIANA'S BOOK: Healthy Sex Drive, Healthy You: What Your Libido Reveals About Your Life DR. DIANA'S PROGRAM: Dr. Diana’s Transform Your Body, Mind, and Energy Detox program WATCH ON YOUTUBE: The Splitting Smart Podcast FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: Instagram.com/saperelawfirm JOIN THE CONVERSATION ON FACEBOOK: Facebook.com/saperelawfirm NEED QUALITY LEGAL HELP? Visit Sapere Law & Mediation NEED SOME ENCOURAGMENT? Kelly wrote a book just for YOU: Victim Is Not Your Name: Remembering Your True Identity In the Midst of Life Challenges…

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Heartbreak or Hormones? How HRT Could Save Your Marriage Ep 58 (Part 1) 31:26

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Text us your feedback or questions - we'd love to hear from you. Think your marriage is falling apart? It might actually be your hormones. Kelly sees people walk into her office every day ready to end their marriage—sometimes without realizing that hormones (theirs or their spouse’s) might be the real issue. Dr. Diana sees it too. Together, they break down how perimenopause, menopause, and hormone imbalance can show up as brain fog, anxiety, low libido, or emotional burnout—and how many women don’t get real answers until it’s too late. In this episode of The Splitting Smart Podcast, Kelly Bennett, Esq. teams up with Dr. Diana Hoppe—OB/GYN, hormone expert, and best-selling author—to talk about a little-known connection between hormonal shifts and marital breakdown. If you're in your 40s or 50s and feeling unhappy in your relationship, this episode is a must-listen. Dr. Diana and Kelly cover: Why perimenopause is often a hidden factor in relationship conflict How hormone changes can masquerade as marital problems What to do when everything feels like too much Why libido issues, mood swings, and brain fog may not be “just stress” What to now about hormone therapy and how to ask the right questions When it’s time to pause and check your health before filing for divorce About Dr. Diana: Dr. Diana Hoppe is a board-certified OB/GYN, best-selling author, and total rockstar when it comes to helping women feel like themselves again. She is the founder of AmazingOver40.com, a telemedicine platform focused on hormone balance and women’s wellness. RESOURCES: DR. DIANA'S WEBSITE: https://amazingover40.com DR. DIANA'S BOOK: Healthy Sex Drive, Healthy You: What Your Libido Reveals About Your Life DR. DIANA'S PROGRAM: Dr. Diana’s Transform Your Body, Mind, and Energy Detox program WATCH ON YOUTUBE: The Splitting Smart Podcast FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: Instagram.com/saperelawfirm JOIN THE CONVERSATION ON FACEBOOK: Facebook.com/saperelawfirm NEED QUALITY LEGAL HELP? Visit Sapere Law & Mediation NEED SOME ENCOURAGMENT? Kelly wrote a book just for YOU: Victim Is Not Your Name: Remembering Your True Identity In the Midst of Life Challenges…

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When Divorce & Faith Collide (Pt 2): When to Turn to Your Church—And When to Look Elsewhere Ep 57 35:29

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Text us your feedback or questions - we'd love to hear from you. Divorce can feel overwhelming—even when faith is a big part of your life. Many people turn to their church for guidance, but what if you don’t feel comfortable talking to your pastor? What if the advice you’re given doesn’t match up with what you know is best for you and your family? What is there is abuse? In this episode, Kelly Bennett, Esq., continues her conversation with Denny Brewer—a longtime family law attorney, Executive Pastor, and General Counsel at Fellowship Church in Grapevine, Texas. They explore what faith communities often get wrong—and right—when it comes to divorce (hint: especially if there is abuse involved), how to navigate faith-based guilt, what to do if your place of worship isn’t the right fit for support, and why mediation can be the best choice for handling divorce for privacy and mental (and financial!) well-being reasons. Kelly and Denny chat about: Why many people feel uncomfortable discussing divorce with their faith leaders Why pastors and religious leaders should ask, “Is there abuse?” How abuse can go unmentioned and lead to tragedy When to seek professional guidance outside of your faith community Why mediation is often a better option than going to court Why there is no better time to embrace faith and lean into prayer than during divorce Plus, a couple of very surprising stories… Dennis Brewer is longtime family law attorney, and executive pastor and general counsel at Texas mega Church Fellowship Church in Grapevine, Texas. He is the co-author of the new book, Back to Court: A Complete Guide to Child Custody Litigation . Note: This episode touches on abuse and real-life incidents with unfortunate endings. If these subjects are difficult for you, please listen with care. RESOURCES: DENNY BREWER'S BOOK: Back to Court: A Complete Guide to Child Custody Litigation . WATCH ON YOUTUBE: The Splitting Smart Podcast FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: Instagram.com/saperelawfirm JOIN THE CONVERSATION ON FACEBOOK: Facebook.com/saperelawfirm NEED QUALITY LEGAL HELP? Visit Sapere Law & Mediation NEED SOME ENCOURAGMENT? Kelly wrote a book just for YOU: Victim Is Not Your Name: Remembering Your True Identity In the Midst of Life Challenges…

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When Divorce & Faith Collide: Finding Strength When Your Marriage Is Ending Ep 56 40:31

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Text us your feedback or questions - we'd love to hear from you. Hey friends, divorce can shake your faith to the core, right? Whether you’re struggling with guilt, a fear of being judged by your faith community, or questioning what your beliefs say about divorce, you’re not alone. What if the very thing you’re afraid of could actually be a source of healing and strength? In this episode, Kelly Bennett, Esq., chats with Denny Brewer, Board Certified Family Law Specialist, about the impact of divorce on faith. They break down common struggles—like shame, isolation, and judgment—and give real-life insights on getting through divorce while staying true to your beliefs. Key Takeaways from This Episode: The “Shame Factor” in Divorce – Why people feel judged and isolated during divorce—and how to break free from that mindset. Faith’s Role in Divorce – How some churches/places of worship get it wrong by ostracizing divorced members—and how others actually provide support and healing. Are You Stuck in Victim Mode? – How to recognize if you’re wallowing in self-pity or using your faith to find strength and purpose. The Power of Forgiveness – What true forgiveness really means (and why it’s actually for you, not your ex). The Right “They” – Why surrounding yourself with the right people during and after divorce is critical to healing and rebuilding your life. Faith-Based Therapy & Divorce Recovery – Why religious counseling alone may not be enough and how faith-based therapy can help you move forward. Making Your Misery Your Ministry – How your greatest struggle can become your greatest source of strength in helping others. Whether you’re the one filing or the one who never wanted the divorce, this chat will help you find strength, clarity, and a way forward. Dennis Brewer is longtime family law attorney, and executive pastor and general counsel at Texas mega Church Fellowship Church in Grapevine, Texas. He is the co-author of the new book, Back to Court: A Complete Guide to Child Custody Litigation . Want more? Tune in for a bonus episode (coming soon) that continues the conversation om divorce and faith. RESOURCES: DENNY BREWER'S BOOK: Back to Court: A Complete Guide to Child Custody Litigation . WATCH ON YOUTUBE: The Splitting Smart Podcast FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: Instagram.com/saperelawfirm JOIN THE CONVERSATION ON FACEBOOK: Facebook.com/saperelawfirm NEED QUALITY LEGAL HELP? Visit Sapere Law & Mediation NEED SOME ENCOURAGMENT? Kelly wrote a book just for YOU: Victim Is Not Your Name: Remembering Your True Identity In the Midst of Life Challenges…

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Divorce Anxiety is Real—Here’s How to Handle It #55 16:37

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Text us your feedback or questions - we'd love to hear from you. Hey friends, let’s talk about something that keeps so many people up at night: divorce anxiety. If you’re in the middle of a divorce or a custody battle, you know how easy it is to get stuck in a cycle of worry. The “what ifs” never stop, and before you know it, you’re running on empty—exhausted, stressed, and overwhelmed. But here’s the thing: Worrying won’t change the outcome. What will make a difference is learning how to focus on what you can control. In this episode, I’m sharing a simple, powerful strategy (inspired by Stephen Covey’s circles of control) to help you shift your mindset, lower your stress, and start making decisions from a place of clarity instead of fear. Here’s what we’re diving into: Why divorce makes you feel like your brain is stuck in overdrive (and how to calm the chaos) Are you stressing over things you can’t change ? Learn to spot the difference between what’s in your control and what’s not Break the worry cycle —a simple shift that stops anxiety from running your life Mediation or court battle? How to know what’s right for your situation (and avoid unnecessary stress and money drains) Taking your power back —how to stop feeling like a victim and start making smart moves for your future If you’re tired of losing sleep over your divorce, hit play now—this episode is packed with real, practical ways to help you breathe easier and move forward. Hosted by Kelly A. Bennett, Esq., a family law attorney and mediator with over 30 years in the family law trenches. RESOURCES: BECOME AN INSIDER WATCH ON YOUTUBE: The Splitting Smart Podcast FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: Instagram.com/saperelawfirm JOIN THE CONVERSATION ON FACEBOOK: Facebook.com/saperelawfirm NEED QUALITY LEGAL HELP? Visit Sapere Law & Mediation NEED SOME ENCOURAGMENT? Kelly wrote a book just for YOU: Victim Is Not Your Name: Remembering Your True Identity In the Midst of Life Challenges -- Struggling to bring up mediation with your ex? I have a resource that gives you easy scripts, smart tips, and a quick video to help you start the conversation. Get it here…

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Custody Issues? Get a Fair Deal Without Losing Your Career or Kids #54 45:08

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Text us your feedback or questions - we'd love to hear from you. Hey friends, this one’s for all the hardworking parents out there trying to figure out how to juggle a busy career and the emotional rollercoaster of divorce and custody. Let’s be real: divorce is tough enough, but when you’re the breadwinner, it can feel like you’re being pulled in a million directions. You’ve poured a lot into your career—long hours, late nights, sacrificed weekends—and now you’re asking, “ Is all of that going to work against me when it comes to custody of my kids? ” This week, we’re tackling the real struggles of balancing work and family during a divorce. I’m breaking it down in plain English, including what the courts actually look for in custody cases and how to set yourself up for success—while staying connected to your kids. Here’s what we’re talking about: How to build trust with your kids , your co-parent, and the court. Joint custody, sole custody and physical custody - what do these terms really mean and how do they affect you? “Status quo” in custody cases (and why it’s a big deal). Parenting plans that actually work for you and your kids. Why staying close to your kids’ primary residence could make or break your case for more parenting time. How tech tools can help you stay connected , even when work takes you away. The lowdown on mediation vs. court battles , and how mediation can save you time, money, and stress (while keeping the focus on your family’s best interests). If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by the tug-of-war between work, divorce court, and quality time with your kids, this episode is your realistic guide to getting through it. Hosted by Kelly A. Bennett, Esq., a family law attorney and mediator with over 30 years of experience in the family law trenches. RESOURCES: Struggling to bring up mediation with your ex? I have a free resource that gives you easy scripts, smart tips, and a quick video to help you start the conversation. Get it here -- WATCH ON YOUTUBE: The Splitting Smart Podcast FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: Instagram.com/saperelawfirm JOIN THE CONVERSATION ON FACEBOOK: Facebook.com/saperelawfirm NEED QUALITY LEGAL HELP? Visit Sapere Law & Mediation NEED SOME ENCOURAGMENT? Kelly wrote a book just for YOU: Victim Is Not Your Name: Remembering Your True Identity In the Midst of Life Challenges…

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Divorce Without Destroying Your Business or Career, #53 18:49

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Text us your feedback or questions - we'd love to hear from you. An ending is a new beginning, Hey friends, this is it—the grand finale for On Fire Empire! Next stop? Our big, bold rebrand to The Splitting Smart Podcast! But before we fully dive into this exciting new era, we need to tackle something major: how to keep your career or business thriving during a divorce. Let’s face it—divorce is messy. But here’s the deal: it doesn’t have to take down everything you’ve built. Whether you’re a small business owner or crushing it in your dream career, you can safeguard the work you’ve poured your heart into. In this episode, I’m sharing my go-to strategies to help you stay focused, protect your livelihood, and dodge the classic pitfalls that can throw you off track. We’ll cover why your business or work matters more than ever, how to schedule your energy (instead of letting divorce drain it), the power of having a flexible game plan, and how to build a rock-solid support system that actually lifts you up. You’ll get real-world advice, a few ‘aha!’ moments, and plenty of tools to help you split smart without letting the chaos of divorce derail your life. You’ve worked too hard to let that happen. Let’s do this!" What’s Next? The Splitting Smart Podcast, launches January 6th. Get ready for all-new episodes full of tips, tools, and strategies to navigate family law conflicts with clarity and confidence. -- WATCH ON YOUTUBE: Kelly Bennett, Esq. FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: Instagram.com/saperelawfirm JOIN THE CONVERSATION ON FACEBOOK: Facebook.com/saperelawfirm NEED A QUALITY LEGAL HELP? Visit Sapere Law & Mediation NEED SOME ENCOURAGMENT? Kelly wrote a book just for YOU: Victim Is Not Your Name: Remembering Your True Identity In the Midst of Life Challenges…

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Episode #52: The Next Chapter? Splitting Smart 9:17

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Text us your feedback or questions - we'd love to hear from you. You talked, we listened. Friends, I’m thrilled to have you back for an episode that marks a big shift in our journey together. Today, I’m giving you a peek behind the scenes as we prepare for an exciting rebrand of the On Fire Empire podcast. After hearing your feedback about what you truly need, we’re evolving to become The Splitting Smart Podcast. This isn’t just a name change—it’s a new direction that helps you navigate life’s toughest conflicts, whether it’s divorce, custody battles, or managing other complex relationships… the smart way. So, what is changing? You’ll still get my insights, guidance, and expert advice from 30 years in the trenches, but now with an added focus on real-life conflict resolution. (I mean, there’s a reason I’m called “The Breakup Artist”, right?). We’ll tackle the unique challenges that come with splitting up and give you practical tools you can use to stay out of court. What’s in it for you? Whether you’re going through a divorce, supporting a friend or family member who is, or even facing conflict in business, this podcast will give you the tools to split smart…. protecting your family, giving you peace of mind, and going easier on your wallet. Here’s a glimpse of the future: Expect monthly episodes that focus on building your skills in mediation, conflict resolution, and smart decision-making. Plus, we’ll have bonus episodes featuring guest experts (Sapere Pros) who will empower you to manage the changes you’re facing. Join me as we turn the page on the On Fire Empire and start a new chapter together with The Splitting Smart Podcast. ------------------------------------------------ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: Kelly Bennett, Esq. FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: Instagram.com/saperelawfirm JOIN THE CONVERSATION ON FACEBOOK: Facebook.com/saperelawfirm NEED QUALITY LEGAL HELP? Visit Sapere Law & Mediation NEED SOME ENCOURAGMENT? Kelly wrote a book just for YOU: Victim Is Not Your Name: Remembering Your True Identity In the Midst of Life Challenges…

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Episode #51: Intentional Living - Why YOU Need to Get Intentional ASAP 7:58

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Text us your feedback or questions - we'd love to hear from you. Are you living and running your business with INTENTION? You may be asking...what actually is Intentional Living and how the heck do you achieve it? As we roll into the holidays and into the new year, I thought this would be a timely topic to discuss. This week on the On Fire Empire Podcast , we talk about intentional living. Living with intention is first knowing what you want! Think about that for a moment, do you know what you want...honestly? Are you actively going after what you want? Are all of your daily thoughts and actions intentional to get you one step closer to the life you want? Listen to today's episode and start living with INTENTION. You can do this! LISTEN IN TO HEAR: What the heck living with INTENTION actually means. How to define your own intention(s). How do I use my intentions in my personal and business life, to live authentically. How to access my free resource to get started living with Intention. You won’t want to miss this episode – It is one thing to have an Intention, in the middle of intention and what you want, is the why. This is what drives your motivation. Meaning is everything! Happy listening, Kelly -------- WATCH ON YOUTUBE: Kelly Bennett, Esq. FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: Instagram.com/kellybennett_esq JOIN THE CONVERSATION ON FACEBOOK: Facebook.com/kellybennettesq GET KELLY'S BOOK: Victim Is Not Your Name: Remembering Your True Identity In the Midst of Life Challenges…

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Episode #50: Gaining Perspective and Enjoying The Holidays With Intention 15:20

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Text us your feedback or questions - we'd love to hear from you. Are you dreading the holidays? I know sometimes we think, "oh I have to see that odd ball family member that has such weird views and if I have to listen to them again..." Let's turn that on its head and get intentional about how we roll into the holidays. This week on the On Fire Empire Podcast, we are getting personal. With the holidays coming up it is a good time to practice keeping ourselves open to new perspectives and becoming intentional in managing challenging situations. Just as we do in business we must adapt and understand how to pivot. The majority of modern holidays were born from a religion or faith-based idiology, and there was INTENTION behind their creation. LISTEN IN TO HEAR: The difference in feeling gratitude vs. showing/ LIVING in gratitude. How we can step back and listen and gain a new perspective before judging others and their point of view. A new fresh perspective on the holidays and maybe a theme for you and your loved ones to follow this season. How you can become intentional through practical application this holiday season. You won’t want to miss this episode – We can't control every situation; we CAN control our reaction and perspective on them. Happy listening, Kelly -------- WATCH ON YOUTUBE: Kelly Bennett, Esq. FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: Instagram.com/kellybennett_esq JOIN THE CONVERSATION ON FACEBOOK: Facebook.com/kellybennettesq GET KELLY'S BOOK: Victim Is Not Your Name: Remembering Your True Identity In the Midst of Life Challenges…

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Episode #49: Quiet Quitting 25:03

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Text us your feedback or questions - we'd love to hear from you. This week on the On Fire Empire Podcast, I am discussing Quiet Quitting, a new trend that has been in the news since summer 2022. It all started with a seventeen second video on Tik Tok. (I know right!?) Simply, Quiet Quitting is when someone is not outright quitting their job, but they are quitting the idea of going above and beyond; still performing their duties, only doing the bare minimum. We cannot let this trend invite scarcity into our lives and businesses. LISTEN IN TO HEAR: What is Quiet Quitting, what it is NOT, and is it happening in my business. Strategies and things you can do to prevent or stop your employees from doing this. You won’t want to miss this episode – We can't change the world if we have a team that is doing the bare minimum. This new trend is the anti-work life balance. Learn how to take charge and help support your employees so everyone can serve your clients and customers while being ALL in. -------- BOOK RESOURCE: "The Road Less Stupid" by Keith Cunningham → Buy it here. WATCH ON YOUTUBE: Kelly Bennett, Esq. FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: Instagram.com/kellybennett_esq JOIN THE CONVERSATION ON FACEBOOK: Facebook.com/kellybennettesq GET KELLY'S BOOK: Victim Is Not Your Name: Remembering Your True Identity In the Midst of Life Challenges…

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Episode #48 - Q&A with Kelly: Trial Separation? Divorce? A Spouse Refuses Marriage Counseling 16:47

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Text us your feedback or questions - we'd love to hear from you. On this shorty-episode, Kelly takes a call from Christy. Christy and her husband have a rocky marriage, and he won't go to counseling. Christy's thinking that maybe a trial separation is in order - but hubby is super prickly and she doesn't know how to broach the subject. With her lawyer hat squarely in place, Kelly hears Christy's question for the first time and gives Christy practical advice that only a super-seasoned divorce and mediation lawyer can give. Listen in and learn: . . . Why ultimatums don't work, and the smarter approach that does . . . . What Empowerment Zones are, and how to live in those zones. . . . How to approach a spouse who views hard conversations as personal attacks. . . . How to set yourself up for a productive conversation by leading with love, sticking to facts over feelings, choosing a smart location for the discussion and using time limits. Is legal separation right for Christy? You be the judge. Disclaimer . . . The content presented here and on the podcast are not intended to be legal advice, nor does it create an attorney-client relationship. Such content created by Kelly Bennett is for informational and educational purposes only. Legal advice happens when the lawyer is given the opportunity to hear your specific situation and give you advice based on your unique facts, after a conversation with you about those facts. == RESOURCES MENTIONED: Kelly's book, Victim is Not Your Name , pages 84-88. (Circles of Influence; Empowerment Zones). GOT BUSINESS OR LEGAL QUESTIONS YOU'D LIKE KELLY TO ANSWER ON THE PODCAST? CALL AND LET HER KNOW: 951-406-0444 WATCH ON YOUTUBE: Kelly Bennett, Esq. FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: Instagram.com/kellybennett_esq JOIN THE CONVERSATION ON FACEBOOK: Facebook.com/kellybennettesq GET YOURSELF AN AMAZING LAWYER: Bennett Law Corporation GET KELLY'S BOOK: Victim Is Not Your Name: Remembering Your True Identity In the Midst of Life Challenges…

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Episode #46 - Business Trinity: How to Hire a Team of Peak Performers 49:14

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Text us your feedback or questions - we'd love to hear from you. Are you stuck with bad hiring decisions because you’ve been in desperate need of employees? In the age of the “hiring desert” - not enough qualified job candidates to go around - this happens quite frequently. But there are steps you can take today to start turning your hiring practices around. In this episode, Kelly shares three crucial components to hiring the right employees. These are tried and true methods learned over Kelly's 35 years in business. 1) Hire intentionally and methodically; and create a backup plan. 2) Hire for company culture. 3) Develop a hiring process. You can’t afford to wing this. You'll also learn: How to get out of the “any warm body” danger zone when hiring. How to use pre-framing when hiring. What do you want your team to look like? What are your team’s core values? How a screening system gives you a more complete picture of candidates while freeing up your time. How a 90 day probationary period should be the minimum, allowing time for the new hire shine and polish to wear off. Plus, you’ll get a peek into how our entire hiring process works. It’s involved yet streamlined, and very effective in helping us hire the right people. If you’re struggling to figure out how to hire the right people, this episode's for you! == RESOURCES MENTIONED: Clifton Strengths Assessment (StrengthsFinder) https://www.gallup.com/cliftonstrengths/en/252137/home.aspx Myers Briggs Assessment (16 Personalities) https://www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test GOT BUSINESS OR LEGAL QUESTIONS YOU'D LIKE KELLY TO ANSWER ON THE PODCAST? CALL AND LET HER KNOW: 951-406-0444 WATCH ON YOUTUBE: Kelly Bennett, Esq. FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: Instagram.com/kellybennett_esq JOIN THE CONVERSATION ON FACEBOOK: Facebook.com/kellybennettesq GET YOURSELF AN AMAZING LAWYER: Bennett Law Corporation GET KELLY'S BOOK: Victim Is Not Your Name: Remembering Your True Identity In the Midst of Life Challenges…

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Episode #45 - Business Trinity: Why Training is Critical to the Success of Your Business 43:01

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Text us your feedback or questions - we'd love to hear from you. If your value chain breaks it can disrupt your business big time. Value chains are the processes you have in place to deliver your products and services to your clients. This break might be caused by an employee failing to do their job properly because they didn't have the appropriate training. And that’s totally fixable. The right training process sets employees up for success and helps them become peak performers. Showing them the ropes is more than just telling them not to break the rules; you’re actually showing them what to do. No more guessing. This episode is the second in Kelly's "Business Trinity" series (Culture, Training, Hiring). Kelly discusses why the right training keeps your business moving down the path to success. It doesn’t matter if there are only two of you in the organization… training is absolutely critical to your success! In this episode you'll learn the 4 Key Elements to an effective training process (what training IS and IS NOT) . . . When you get your training right, as a business owner you'll gain freedom to operate and work on your business in the most productive and profitable way possible. === RESOURCES MENTIONED: The Full Focus Planner by Michael Hyatt Trainual GOT BUSINESS OR LEGAL QUESTIONS YOU'D LIKE KELLY TO ANSWER ON THE PODCAST? CALL AND LET HER KNOW: 951-406-0444 WATCH ON YOUTUBE: Kelly Bennett, Esq. FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: Instagram.com/kellybennett_esq JOIN THE CONVERSATION ON FACEBOOK: Facebook.com/kellybennettesq GET YOURSELF AN AMAZING LAWYER: Bennett Law Corporation GET KELLY'S BOOK: Victim Is Not Your Name: Remembering Your True Identity In the Midst of Life Challenges…

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Episode #44 - Business Trinity: Culture Eats Strategy for Lunch 47:21

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Text us your feedback or questions - we'd love to hear from you. Is a great work culture all about perks and goodies? Free lunches, nap rooms, and onsite chefs? Nope. Studies show that perks don’t result in a better work culture, and they don’t create peak performers. If you’ve got too much drama and negativity in your workplace…you're not alone. In this episode, Kelly shows you what works and what doesn’t when it comes to creating a happier and more productive work team. This is part one in the three-part Business Trinity series (Culture, Training, Hiring). If you’re not sure how to build an amazing culture in your business, this episode gives you answers. Here's the Implementation assignment Kelly gave you in this episode: "Culture is not values or mission statements; those are ideals, not disciplines. Culture is how we treat each other, how we talk to each other, whether or not we trust each other, and how we handle conflict. Culture is about accountability, measuring, a bias for urgency, a focus on solutions, calling it tight - saying what needs to be said - being kind and generous, acknowledging one another, and expressing appreciation." ~ from The Road Less Stupid by Keith Cunningham What does the culture in your business look like today? How are you treating each other? How is conflict being handled? How is accountability being handled? What are you tolerating? Define where you are on a scale of one to 10 on adding value to your clients and your customers. Are you at a 10, giving massive, massive value? Or are you at a two? What you want your company culture to look like? Answer: How will we treat each other? How will we handle conflict? What do you need to get courageous about not tolerating? Decide on one to two things that need to go right away so you can develop the quality culture that you deserve in your business. === RESOURCES MENTIONED: The Reality-Based Rules of the Workplace by Cy Wakeman Reality-Based Leadership by Cy Wakeman The Road Less Stupid by Keith Cunningham GOT BUSINESS OR LEGAL QUESTIONS YOU'D LIKE KELLY TO ANSWER ON THE PODCAST? CALL AND LET HER KNOW: 951-406-0444 WATCH ON YOUTUBE: Kelly Bennett, Esq. FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: Instagram.com/kellybennett_esq JOIN THE CONVERSATION ON FACEBOOK: Facebook.com/kellybennettesq GET YOURSELF AN AMAZING LAWYER: Bennett Law Corporation GET KELLY'S BOOK: Victim Is Not Your Name: Remembering Your True Identity In the Midst of Life Challenges…

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Episode #43 - Who's Getting the Love in Your Business? 6:33

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Text us your feedback or questions - we'd love to hear from you. As a leaders, we need a team of peak performers to execute the vision. But the low performers in our organizations suck our time, our energy, while our top performers get little attention. What’s the fix? Here’s some quick thoughts from Kelly, on why "running with the racehorses" is so much better than babysitting the nags. == GOT BUSINESS OR LEGAL QUESTIONS YOU'D LIKE KELLY TO ANSWER ON THE PODCAST? CALL AND LET HER KNOW: 951-406-0444 WATCH ON YOUTUBE: Kelly Bennett, Esq. FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: Instagram.com/kellybennett_esq JOIN THE CONVERSATION ON FACEBOOK: Facebook.com/kellybennettesq GET YOURSELF AN AMAZING LAWYER: Bennett Law Corporation GET KELLY'S BOOK: Victim Is Not Your Name: Remembering Your True Identity In the Midst of Life Challenges…

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Episode #42 – “You’re Enough, Already!” How to Combat Imposter Syndrome with Judge Sherrill Ellsworth 47:51

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Text us your feedback or questions - we'd love to hear from you. Hey friends! Welcome back to the On Fire Empire Podcast. If you caught last month’s episode, you’ll know we’re presenting all episodes in video format every month. A lot of us are talking about our goals and our objectives for 2021. The other thing that I hear about is a bit of hesitation from our women leaders and influencers. Are you second-guessing yourself – asking questions like “Can I be that bold with my goals?” “Can I really be that audacious with my goals?” … and a little bit of self-doubt creeps in. That self-doubt goes to a whole new level; where it stops you from taking action. A lot of that is driven by this phenomenon that’s been around for a long time. And we all suffer from it in one shape or form. It’s called Imposter Syndrome. Today, I’m interviewing my longtime friend and my former colleague in the law, retired judge Sherrill Ellsworth. We’re talking about Imposter Syndrome, women needing to believe in themselves, think about those things that hold us back, and embracing those hurdles head-on. Sherrill is a past presiding judge of the Riverside County Superior Court. Over the years I even appeared in front of her. Oh yes, we’ve gone toe to toe… or bench to bench if in the courtroom. Later on, after she retired, we became business partners. First as an attorney and then becoming elevated to the bench, she was one of the youngest bench officers ever. She served nearly 20 years! Today we’re talking about Imposter Syndrome. I think you’re really going to enjoy what Judge Ellsworth has to say because we’ve both been there and we both overcome some serious hurdles. She’s brilliant, very insightful and I know you’re going to love her. == GOT BUSINESS OR LEGAL QUESTIONS YOU'D LIKE KELLY TO ANSWER ON THE PODCAST? CALL AND LET HER KNOW: 951-406-0444 WATCH ON YOUTUBE: Kelly Bennett, Esq. FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: Instagram.com/kellybennett_esq JOIN THE CONVERSATION ON FACEBOOK: Facebook.com/kellybennettesq GET YOURSELF AN AMAZING LAWYER: Bennett Law Corporation GET KELLY'S BOOK: Victim Is Not Your Name: Remembering Your True Identity In the Midst of Life Challenges…

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Episode #41 – What Happens When Women Lead 1:05:35

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Text us your feedback or questions - we'd love to hear from you. Hello my friends! Welcome back to another episode of the On Fire Empire Podcast. It’s been a while since our last episode…. but like all good things, they’re worth the wait! This episode and all others that follow with be brought to you in both audio and video. Today I brought my old campaign sign in from when I ran for city council (and won!) back in …well… just a few short years ago. Today, I have Lori Stone joining me in the studio. Lori is the sister of former California Senator Jeff Stone – and now she’s running for elected office. I also have Rachael Bennett, Esq. chatting with me about the interview. We reminisce about what Rachael experienced during the time I ran and how that affected her career. We’re talking women in leadership, social experiments in homelessness (Lori learned first hand what it was to be a homeless woman on the street for a day), and a few surprises you won’t want to miss. Links & Resources Mentioned in this Episode Lori Stone's Homelessness Experiment == RESOURCES MENTIONED: GOT BUSINESS OR LEGAL QUESTIONS YOU'D LIKE KELLY TO ANSWER ON THE PODCAST? CALL AND LET HER KNOW: 951-406-0444 WATCH ON YOUTUBE: Kelly Bennett, Esq. FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: Instagram.com/kellybennett_esq JOIN THE CONVERSATION ON FACEBOOK: Facebook.com/kellybennettesq GET YOURSELF AN AMAZING LAWYER: Bennett Law Corporation GET KELLY'S BOOK: Victim Is Not Your Name: Remembering Your True Identity In the Midst of Life Challenges…

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Episode #40 – What to Do If You or Someone You Love is Sheltering in Place With an Abuser 42:15

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Text us your feedback or questions - we'd love to hear from you. Hi, friends! Welcome to another episode of the On Fire Empire Podcast. During these challenging times with COVID-19, where our day-to-day has been disrupted, and we’re doing things in a whole new way as we work through this worldwide pandemic we thought we’d change it up for the podcast. We’re bringing you both audio and video. During these times, there is something that continues to happen at home. It’s a topic a lot of people don’t want to talk about, but we need to talk about it. That is the topic of abuse and domestic violence. More than ever with people sheltering in place, many folks who are the victims of controller abusers are now isolated and completely locked into place with that abuser. Whether you are one of those folks who are experiencing domestic violence, control and/or any other form of abuse within your home, or your children are, or if you’re a friend, or family, or a neighbor and you might be hearing things, or you’re aware that there have been some problems with someone you love in the past, this episode is for YOU. In today’s episode, I’m bringing you my interview with Katie Gilbertson. Katie is phenomenal! She works within the Riverside County District Attorney’s Office in their Victim Services Unit, overseeing what we call the S.A.F.E. Family Justice Centers. S.A.F.E. is a non-profit organization here in southern California that partners with our courts. S.A.F.E. stands for Safe Alternatives For Everyone. S.A.F.E. is a domestic violence education, prevention, and intervention agency. I’ve known and worked with them for years and they are amazing people, as are those within our District Attorney’s Office. You’re going to hear from Katie today as we talk about this issue and what this season of domestic violence looks like. Katie and I talk about what’s happening in homes, what you can do if you are a victim of domestic violence, or if you’re concerned that it may be escalating within your home, and what you can do as a loved one, as a family member, as a concerned neighbor, and as a friend. == RESOURCES MENTIONED: Safe Alternatives for Everyone (S.A.F.E.) Website The National Domestic Violence hotline `My Plan`` Mobile App GOT BUSINESS OR LEGAL QUESTIONS YOU'D LIKE KELLY TO ANSWER ON THE PODCAST? CALL AND LET HER KNOW: 951-406-0444 WATCH ON YOUTUBE: Kelly Bennett, Esq. FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: Instagram.com/kellybennett_esq JOIN THE CONVERSATION ON FACEBOOK: Facebook.com/kellybennettesq GET YOURSELF AN AMAZING LAWYER: Bennett Law Corporation GET KELLY'S BOOK: Victim Is Not Your Name: Remembering Your True Identity In the Midst of Life Challenges…

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Episode #39: Creating an Extraordinary Life in the Midst of Chaos - Interview with Ivy Fitzpatrick (PART 2) 36:02

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Text us your feedback or questions - we'd love to hear from you. Well, hello Empire builders. Welcome back to the On Fire Empire Podcast. Today, I’m bringing you PART TWO of my interview with District Attorney, Ivy Fitzpatrick. If you listened to the last episode, which you’ll want to do if you have not, Ivy Fitzpatrick and I were talking in detail about how to live an extraordinary life in the midst of chaos, and we certainly are in some chaotic times here dealing with this COVID-19 worldwide pandemic. Where we left off, Ivy was talking about the different tools that she used to handle a major life challenge that was as disruptive if not more, and on an ongoing basis, than what we’re dealing with this pandemic. I left off asking Ivy what kinds of people she surround herself with in order to successfully navigate a very serious chronic medical condition that she’s got, and so you’re going to hear Ivy kick that off. But the rest of the interview gets really interesting, because we are discussing the concept of redemptive pain and how to use that redemptive pain, not only to live an extraordinary life, but to also serve others. "This is Part 2 of Kelly's interview with Ivy Fitzpatrick, a career District Attorney in California who practices law and leads, despite some serious health challenges. In the last episode, Kelly and Ivy talked about how to live an extraordinary life in the midst of chaos - so appropriate during this COVID-19 worldwide pandemic. The conversation continues . . ." == GOT BUSINESS OR LEGAL QUESTIONS YOU'D LIKE KELLY TO ANSWER ON THE PODCAST? CALL AND LET HER KNOW: 951-406-0444 WATCH ON YOUTUBE: Kelly Bennett, Esq. FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: Instagram.com/kellybennett_esq JOIN THE CONVERSATION ON FACEBOOK: Facebook.com/kellybennettesq GET YOURSELF AN AMAZING LAWYER: Bennett Law Corporation GET KELLY'S BOOK: Victim Is Not Your Name: Remembering Your True Identity In the Midst of Life Challenges…

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Episode #38: Creating an Extraordinary Life in the Midst of Chaos - Interview with Ivy Fitzpatrick (PART 1) 50:31

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Text us your feedback or questions - we'd love to hear from you. Hey there Empire Builders! I’m so happy to be back in what is a return after a long break from the microphone. We are in an interesting season of change and a lot of worldwide turmoil and upheaval with this COVID-19 crisis. And today’s episode and interview couldn’t come at a better time. I think you’re going to find a lot of very helpful information and inspiration as I introduce you to and you listen in on my interview with my guest, Ivy Fitzpatrick. Ivy Fitzpatrick is an exceptional career woman. If you’ve got some struggles going on, if your life has been put on pause or there’s a big shift or sea change that’s gone on recently – this episode and the big life challenge that Ivy brings to the table will change your perspective. Whether or not it’s a chronic illness or something else, you are going to hear the approach to life and change as a result of the big life challenge that Ivy brings to the table. == GOT BUSINESS OR LEGAL QUESTIONS YOU'D LIKE KELLY TO ANSWER ON THE PODCAST? CALL AND LET HER KNOW: 951-406-0444 WATCH ON YOUTUBE: Kelly Bennett, Esq. FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: Instagram.com/kellybennett_esq JOIN THE CONVERSATION ON FACEBOOK: Facebook.com/kellybennettesq GET YOURSELF AN AMAZING LAWYER: Bennett Law Corporation GET KELLY'S BOOK: Victim Is Not Your Name: Remembering Your True Identity In the Midst of Life Challenges…

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Episode #37: Encore – How to Unleash the Power of Negative Motivation and Punch Procrastination in the Face 24:58

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Text us your feedback or questions - we'd love to hear from you. We’re busy preparing all new episodes coming in 2020, so today we’re bringing an encore presentation of Episode 10… and it’s all about procrastination. Oh yes – that faaavorite subject! I’m throwin’ you into the deep end of the pool (and yes…I’m jumping in with you)… because today, we’re exploring the Power of Negative Motivation. That’s right – NEGATIVE motivation. Now I’m not a big fan of negative anything – and really…I think the phrase “negative motivation” is a bit of an oxy-moron. But I’ve discovered a few ways that negative consequences really do work to overcome procrastination. So in this show, I’ll share 3 negative motivation tools you can use today to combat procrastination…including the one that’s the most effective technique I’ve ever used! It’s my “secret weapon” when I’m REALLY feeling challenged by the procrastination monster… And you know what? I’ve battled procrastination ALL. MY. LIFE. It’s a procrastination throw-down today. Are you ready? Then gimme your hand, ‘cause we’re jumping into the deep end. == RESOURCES MENTIONED: GOT BUSINESS OR LEGAL QUESTIONS YOU'D LIKE KELLY TO ANSWER ON THE PODCAST? CALL AND LET HER KNOW: 951-406-0444 WATCH ON YOUTUBE: Kelly Bennett, Esq. FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: Instagram.com/kellybennett_esq JOIN THE CONVERSATION ON FACEBOOK: Facebook.com/kellybennettesq GET YOURSELF AN AMAZING LAWYER: Bennett Law Corporation GET KELLY'S BOOK: Victim Is Not Your Name: Remembering Your True Identity In the Midst of Life Challenges…

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Episode #36: The One Productivity Super Power Everyone Overlooks 23:04

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Text us your feedback or questions - we'd love to hear from you. When was the last time you were bored? What is the sensation you get when you’re bored? It is unpleasant? Do you feel restless? Is it a lonely feeling? Do you feel unproductive when you’re bored out of your mind? Did you know that this thing called boredom is actually a superpower of the most creative minds, the most effective problem-solvers, and the most successful business leaders? If you haven’t guessed by now BOREDOM is our topic today…and you’ll want to listen to this week’s episode because this conversation is anything but boring. Links to resources mentioned in this episode: The Conquest of Happiness – Bertrand Russell The Science of Boredom: The Upside (and Downside) of Downtime – Sandi Mann…

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Episode #35: 3 Ways to Overcome a Damaged Reputation, When People Talk Smack About You 43:14

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Text us your feedback or questions - we'd love to hear from you. Have you ever had someone talk smack about you or your business? Was it justified? Was it just a bunch of misinformation designed to get under your skin and make you look bad? Most of the time, when someone talks smack – it doesn’t rise to the level of defamation – the type of smack talk you can sue for…but there is still something you CAN do about it. Yes, you can consider lawsuits (this is often how we hear about these situations at our law firm…people want to pick my legal brain about it). But we’re not going to talk about the legal aspects of this today. We’re going to get into the real practical ways to overcome a damaged reputation (or what you THINK is a damaged reputation) – 3 ways to deal with it…which apply to every situation imaginable.…

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Episode #34: Life Got Ya Down? Time to Ask a Different Question 32:55

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Text us your feedback or questions - we'd love to hear from you. It’s been a LOOOONG hiatus since our last episode. So here we are… back for another season of On Fire Empire – and this time we have a new book to share! More on that later. It’s Thanksgiving this week and for some people, it’s a sad time of the year. This might be you. Or someone you love – if someone you know is going through something – then PLEASE share this episode. It may be exactly what they need – just in the nick of time. This might be the first holiday after any number of things that have a knack of turning the world upside down for some – a failed marriage – lost loved one or family member – financial crisis – you feel alone. When you feel hopeless your vision is clouded – and you can’t envision the future. You feel there is no future – and that feeling leads to the feeling of helplessness. Maybe it’s time you ask… a different QUESTION. Are you ready? Listen up! This episode is dedicated to the memory of Paul Bayne – my friend of 35 years…a special man, who asked a different question. Visit Paul Bayne's Go Fund Me page here…

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Episode #33: 4 Ways Gossip Disempowers You – Part 2 20:39

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Text us your feedback or questions - we'd love to hear from you. In Part 2 of the “Gossip” Empowerment Series. Jose and I tackle 3 more reasons (and the “hows”) gossip disempowers you. Last week, we talked about how your credibility goes out the window when you gossip…and that your “reputation score” is the new currency. Reputations can be pretty easy to damage. Here’s a quick overview: Gossip is a time suck! Gossip invites the wrong kind of people into your inner circle. Gossip hurts you and others. Get your listen on to get the full scoop (and some juicy stories). If you are building a special empire at work or home, then a zero-tolerance gossip policy is critical. So—insert fanfare here—I’m giving you something that is both cool and useful. It’s called the “No Gossip, Affirm Others Policy.” I’ve created this little freebee so you can implement it ASAP. Go grab yours at kellybennettesq.com/033 (and share with business associates and family). Grab the free download and take a listen to our Episode 33 right now… We won’t tell anyone. Download the No Gossip, Affirm Others Policy In this episode, we talk about No Gossip, Affirm Others Policy. You can download your own copy right here and start using it in your own organization! Get Your Worksheet Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode: The “No Gossip, Affirm Others” Policy - download On Fire Empire on Facebook — www.facebook.com/kellybennettesq…

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Episode #32: 4 Ways Gossip Disempowers You – Part 1 27:13

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Text us your feedback or questions - we'd love to hear from you. Welcome to another episode of the On Fire Empire Podcast—I’m your host, Kelly Bennett. (Whisper:) Shhhh. Come closer. Do you want to hear a secret? You do? Well, here it is: Gossip—that gum flapping, time-sucking, all-American pastime—disempowers you. What? Yep, it’s true. Today, we’re looking at some of the side effects of gossip to you personally if you’re involved in it, or generating it. You don’t even think about it, but when you start gossiping…people no longer trust you. Right? Your credibility flies out the door (and don’t let it hit you on your way out). It’s been said that the new currency out there is trustworthiness. You don’t want to lose that. Speaking of losing things, as a manager of people I can’t trust someone who is gossiping, because it harbors bad feelings within the team. Why would I want that person to, for example, lead a project? Why would anyone? Gossip can sour your boss, coworkers, friends and family on you. You might not get that raise or that project, and that stinks…almost as bad as the gossip itself. So have a listen to this episode on how a little “harmless” gossip isn’t so harmless after all. Jose and I share some real-life examples of gossip undoing the “gossiper.” You might not believe what you hear. Plus, I’m giving you a little bonus…our No Gossip Affirm Others Policy that you can use in your life and in your work. That’s something you can actually talk about! Download it below. Download the No Gossip Affirm Others Policy…

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Episode #31: 3 Quick Ways to Decompress – Confessions of an Ambitious Achiever 12:55

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Text us your feedback or questions - we'd love to hear from you. Welcome to another episode of the On Fire Empire Podcast—I’m your host, Kelly Bennett. Today I have something to confess: I’m feeling very behind. I’m off schedule with the On Fire podcast and I’ve been slow getting the episodes out. I’m an achiever-type, so this makes me a little nutty. The wrap up of my book, Victim Is Not Your Name , is also taking longer than expected, and quite frankly, I’m feeling really anxious to get it released. Topping it off, we’re implementing new processes at work. I’m still plugging away and wishing it was done already! And, sadly, summer’s pretty much over, even though it’s still hotter than heck here in the inland empire. With all of these things I need to do, truth be told, I’ve been putting a huge amount of pressure on myself that has caused some angst. If you’re an achiever-type, you can probably relate. In the midst of all that dang pressure I finally stopped, questioned, and asked, “ Self, why am I doing all of this? I’ve got to decompress .” In Episode 31 of the On Fire Empire podcast, I reveal the three ways I found to decompress, and how a simple ‘recalibration’ of the way we look at things can help us breathe a little freer. So this episode is hitting you a bit out of order, but I think it’s an important topic. On the last podcast I told you that the next episode would be about ‘ gossip ,’ which can really disempower you. It’s not done yet and I won’t release anything “half-baked,” but the ‘ gossip ’ episode with be out soon. Life is now, so go get it. Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode: PRE-ORDER Victim is Not Your Name – Remembering Your True Identity in the Midst of Life Crisis — http://victimisnotyourname.com Law Love Life TV — https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCz7Ky6CTSCgdXrm4UU3QOAw…

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Episode #30: How to Booty Shake Your Way to Empowerment 27:24

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Text us your feedback or questions - we'd love to hear from you. Welcome to another episode of the On Fire Empire Podcast–I’m your host, Kelly Bennett. Today we’re talking about the mental perks of having your own personal dance party. Moving your booty has surprising instant and long term, scientifically backed benefits. The weather in So. Cal. has been…well…funky. It’s hot, humid, and not my favorite way to do summer. Honestly, this “yuck” summer monsoon stuff has me waking up feeling a little low! So I’m guessing you’ve had those moments, too. But I’ve learned a simple trick that works wonders to shake it off. It may sound silly, but it’s tried and true. It’s all about the booty shake. In Episode 30 of On Fire Empire, I show you why and how shaking your booty regularly can change your outlook for the day—or even for months. You’ll feel empowered and ready to face whatever challenges come your way. For motivation to get that booty moving, have a listen to this episode! You’ll be glad you did. Oh, and I’ve got a special cameo appearance by a movement “specialist.” He’s a booty-shaking trainer extraordinaire (Josh Hubby), and you won’t want to miss his amazing insights. Here’s a video of that chat with Josh: Kelly’s Booty Shaking Playlist Boogie Shoes – KC & the Sunshine Band – https://amzn.to/2YiL6ad Uptown Funk – Bruno Mars – https://amzn.to/2Yo52bU Shake It Off – Taylor Swift – https://amzn.to/2YoJpIm Fat Bottom Girls – Queen – https://amzn.to/311oMUy September – Earth, Wind & Fire – https://amzn.to/2SHEkJQ Love Shack – B-52s – https://amzn.to/2MgshC7 Single Ladies – Beyonce – https://amzn.to/2SJ4KLs Sign Sealed Delivered – Stevie Wonder – https://amzn.to/30VUkuL…

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Episode #29: Encore – The Upside To Becoming Personally Invested With Emotionally Charged Clients with Mindy Felton 48:05

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Text us your feedback or questions - we'd love to hear from you. Welcome to another episode of the On Fire Empire Podcast – I’m your host, Kelly Bennett. Today we’re introducing a little throwback podcast – It was our very first podcast launched back in November of 2018. Right now we’re in the middle of the summer and on the cusp of releasing Kelly’s new book, “Victim is Not Your Name. Remembering Your True Identity in the Midst of Life Challenges”. As we’re putting on the finishing touches on the book, we got a little behind on our podcast schedule. We’re all about empowerment this season, and Kelly thought…”hey this is about priorities and bringing great content to our audience is a top priority! We know so many people will be helped by this book!” So, in the spirit of empowerment, we’re presenting this encore presentation of Episode Number One – The Upside To Becoming Personally Invested With Emotionally Charged Clients with Mindy Felton . Kelly talks about the upside to become personally invested with emotionally charged clients. Kelly and her sister, Mindy Felton, discuss her work with cancer patients. Kelly and Mindy approach their work in very similar ways – working in emotionally charged situations, doing what you love, and working in something that gives you purpose. Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode: PRE-ORDER Victim is Not Your Name – Remembering Your True Identity in the Midst of Life Crisis — http://victimisnotyourname.com Law Love Life TV — https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCz7Ky6CTSCgdXrm4UU3QOAw…

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