#170. In honor of HALLOWEEN, we are reading some scary, creepy, weird stories from listeners of NTS. FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhh https://amazon.com/shop/paytonsartain https://pinterest.com/paytonsartain SUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF: → Ask P: Advice Column: …

In the same way you give yourself credit for your good results give yourself credit for your bad results!

#169. We’re talking mental AND physical health in this season’s installment of ‘healthy habits.’ I’m not looking to dedicate all of my time to wellness, and in typical NTS fashion, my healthy habits are pretty low-lift ways to incorporate wellness into my every day. So, welcome to my REALISTIC take on a healthy-girl lifestyle. FOLLOW PAYTON: https:…

It is what it is!

#168. A little trigger warning for today’s episode — we are discussing the topic of miscarriage. specifically, my recent experience with an incomplete miscarriage (VERY early, too). this isn’t your normal NTS ep, but I felt the urge to finally share what I’ve been dealing with for the last month and a half. FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/payt…

#167. The girls from The Confident Collective are on Note to Self to discuss feeling SEXY. Feeling sexy in your own skin can be complicated for many of us (I know it has been a journey for me, thus far), we’re talking about a few things that make us feel sexy pretty much immediately. This episode is inspired by a series on TikTok by Greta Louise To…

Episode Description: #166. In this month’s installment of ASK P, we are discussing a few issues plaguing our early 20-something listeners. From rushing to the alter, to long-distance with no end in sight, Payton’s doing her best to give the girlies some advice. FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain…

#165. Halley & Jaz, the hosts of Delusional Diaries podcast, are on Note to Self to discuss living online in your twenties. We’re talking about making friends in a big city, getting back with your ex, owning your personality, boundaries on the internet, and JUSTICE for the monotone girlies. FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain https:/…

#164. Surprise! To celebrate a new era of Note to Self, we’re discussing exactly how to reinvent yourself to step into a new era of YOU. Thank you guys FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhh https://amazon.com/shop/paytonsartain https://pinterest.com/paytonsarta…

#163. We are talking all things getting dressed with the founder of Aureum, Cass DiMicco. In honor of fashion month, we sat down with the influencer-turned-entrepreneur to discuss building a capsule wardrobe, the art of accessorizing, building a business, & working with your partner. Get 20% off when you shop at https://aureumcollective.com when yo…

#162. A short & sweet supplement to New York Fashion Week — we are getting granular about where the cool girls shop. I’m sharing where my coolest friends are shopping, from affordable, everyday staples to dresses for special life moments. FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain https://youtube.com/c/…

#161. As a chronic over-thinker, I’m attempting to embrace the beautiful art of under-analyzing. In today’s episode, we are talking about intercepting ruminating thoughts, focusing on the facts, and learning to live outside of our heads. FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain https://youtube.com/c/p…

#160. This month’s ASK P covers some ground, from romantic relationships to friendships. We’re making a case for loneliness, learning to communicate, discussing the phases of romantic relationships, and more. As always, I’m doing my best to offer guidance, but really its just an excuse to be NOSEY. Thanks for your submissions always and don’t forge…

#159. We’re checking in on Summer 2024 with a few lessons learned, some of my summertime favorites & a bucket list for the rest of summer 2024. We’re making the most of the time we have left! Remember to check in with yourself, too. FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain https://youtube.com/c/payton…

#158. Sometimes I like to verge on the side of witch-y, and today we’re diving into a more spiritual realm with everyday rituals to keep us present. I use the word “ritual,” vs “routine,” because a ritual evokes a certain intention or meaning, rather than simply being a series of actions. We’re talking daily rituals for morning and evening, and mor…

#157. I’m a self-diagnosed doom-scroller, just like anyone else, and I’ve been looking for a cure to this illness. Really, it’s an imbalance in dopamine that’s ruining my life, so in today’s episode, we’re talking about little ways to replace your doom-scrolling with something more dopamine-efficient. Enter: DOPAMINE MENU. We’re discussing my own d…

Sometimes our trauma and experiences guide us away from the things we truly want ….

#156. In this month’s installment of ASK P, we are discussing breakups, long-time-coming and sudden, letting go of friendships, the fear of making a big move, and relinquishing control on occasion. FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhh https://amazon.com/shop/p…

#155. My infamous trainer, Chelsey Rose Health, is on Note to Self to talk strength training, her approach to diet exercise, and how she got me in the absolute*best* shape of my *entire life.* FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhh https://amazon.com/shop/payton…

#154. Maggie Sellers is a Los Angeles based angel investor and syndicate lead, and the founder of the digital media company Hot Smart Rich. Hot Smart Rich empowers startup founders, investors, creators, operators and other aspiring knowledge workers with real business insights by cutting out the boys club bullshit and getting real about what it tak…

#153. Note to Self is wholly rooted in guilt-free self-love and self-indulgence. Practicing the art of self love can look different for everyone, but today we’re getting specific about using our love languages to reconnect with ourselves. Whether you’re a quality time, acts of service, physical touch, gift-giving, or words-of-affirmation girly, thi…

#152. I’m learning how to prioritize relaxation, reducing cortisol (& its effects on my body) and detoxing from a dopamine-fueled life this summer. Today I’m sharing 5 ways I’m making that happen. FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhh https://amazon.com/shop/pa…

#151. Summer is basically upon us, so I’m getting my sh*t together, kinda last minute, to have the best summer of my entire life. FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhh https://amazon.com/shop/paytonsartain https://pinterest.com/paytonsartain SUBMIT TO NOTE TO S…

Be intentional about your relationship ..

#150. In this installment of ASK P, I’m answering listener questions about disrespectful family dynamics, big life decisions, cheating, breakups & more. FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhh https://amazon.com/shop/paytonsartain https://pinterest.com/paytonsart…

#149. In this week’s BONUS EP, we’re getting into the nitty gritty of every hot girl’s favorite: the morning walk. We’re talking about what I’m doing to get the absolute most out of my daily walk, so I can heighten that post-walk euphoria. This episode is in partnership with Nike! FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain https://www.tikto…

#148. Today’s episode is a little darker than normal, but I need to discuss a topic that’s weighing heavily on me as of late: what to do when you’re at a mental health ‘rock bottom.’ Whether it’s you or someone else you know, having mental health lulls happens, especially in the world we live in today. Life can get overwhelming, so let’s talk about…

#147. My much-anticipated episode with one of my best friend’s since college, Laurel Carrell Marsh is FINALLY here. In this ep, Laurel, one of the coolest, most confident people I’ve ever met is, teaching us how to practice confidence in dating, work, & everyday life. We talk about unapologetically going after what you want, and what that actually …

#146. Have you ever met someone who is just f*cking COOL? Just effortlessly themselves? When I think of the coolest people I know (namely, my friends), I realize they have a few personality traits in common. In this episode, I’m detailing specific traits that the coolest people I know possess, so you and I can join their ranks. FOLLOW PAYTON: https…

#145. Tenured professor and Sex & Relationship Expert, Dr. Tara is on NTS to answer listener questions about sex, ranging from sweet to raunchy. This is an extra spicy episode y’all are going to love. FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhh https://amazon.com/sho…

#144. We’re doing a deep dive into acne & aging in today’s episode, thanks to the expertise of Danielle Gronich & Kayleigh Christina, founders of CLEARSTEM, one of my forever favorite skincare brands. We’re sharing how to audit your skincare routine and giving the step-by-step to your best skin ever. FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsarta…

#143. Note to Self’s 3rd birthday is in a couple days, and we are celebrating with an additional ASK P episode this month! We’re answering a few more questions than normal in this one, so buckle in. We talk relationships, kids, dating apps, and so much more. FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain ht…

#142. In today’s installment of ASK P, we’re fielding questions about workplace affairs, being a long-distance daughter, dating athletes and dealing with a life copycatter. FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhh https://amazon.com/shop/paytonsartain https://pint…

Your life is important!

Focus on something that deserves it!

#141. We’re getting *specific* about everything I’m loving for Spring 2023, from skincare & makeup to fashion favorites and more! FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhh https://amazon.com/shop/paytonsartain https://pinterest.com/paytonsartain SUBMIT TO NOTE TO S…

#140. My life needs a reset, and in honor of the season, I’m giving it a little Spring Clean. We’re getting granular about how to declutter, recenter, & revamp. FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhh https://amazon.com/shop/paytonsartain https://pinterest.com/pa…

#139. The band of besties are back to talk life updates and answer listener questions. We are tackling heavy-hitting topics like how much tongue is too much? And how to navigate friendship jealousy (with your boy besties, to be specific). FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain https://youtube.com/c/…

#138. We’re talking about simple pleasures today, aka little things you can do daily to make life just that much more enjoyable. Small indulgences keep me going, so its something I love to share on NTS. Today’s guest, social media influencer and podcast host, Anastazia Dupee, has some really amazing simple pleasures to share, and we get into listen…

#137. In this installment of ASK P, we’re talking topics from family, to relationships, to career and beyond. What do I do if I hate my best friend’s toxic boyfriend? How do I leave a job I once thought was a “dream” but has ended up being miserable? How do I set boundaries with my intense family? Let’s discuss! FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com…

#136. This episode is a testament to living solo! Sometimes living alone can be lonely, yes, but it’s also an essential experience to have in your twenties, in my humble opinion. Today we’re talking 10 tips to make living alone the best experience ever. FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain https:/…

Do you need therapy?

#135. I’m sitting down with my friend and fellow podcaster, Pia Mance, to talk about how she started her jewelry & accessory brand, Heaven Mayhem. Heaven Mayhem has grown like crazy in the last year and has quickly become a celeb- and cool-girl- favorite. We are getting down to the bare bones of starting a business from scratch in today’s episode. …

#134. We are talking HORMONES with registered-dietician and hormone specialist, Lauren Papanos. For the first time on NTS, we are discussing hormone health with a professional, diving deeper into PCOS, hormone imbalances in women, and food & lifestyle additions to live a happier, healthier life. FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain ht…

You only get one life!

#133. We are talking about single-motherhood in your twenties with one of my favorite people to follow on social media, Summer Rachel Warren. Summer shares more about growing up a military brat, raising her daughter in her twenties, being her own boss, and so much more in this episode of NTS. SHOP NOTE TO SELF MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/coll…

How to know …

Life is Life!

#132. We are reading & discussing some pretty horrific listener dating stories in this episode of NTS. I have two of my favorite friends, Emon & Kristen, in the studio to weigh in on your experiences and share some of their own. SHOP NOTE TO SELF MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/note-to-self FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytons…

Things to consider before or while trying to find a man!