All Out in the Open is a resource for LGBTQ Latter-day Saints and those who love them. Our goal is to help listeners connect with themselves, with their families, with their community, and with God. Hosts Charlie Bird and Ben Schilaty help listeners open up to themselves and those around them. Clare Dalton digs into the scriptures and teaches how they can be a catalyst for personal revelation. Iese Wilson takes listeners on a tour of LGBTQ Latter-day Saints all over the Church and introduces ...
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Unpacking our Different Reactions to General Conference
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THE Exclusive: In this episode, Charlie and Ben reflect on their contrasting experiences at the most recent General Conference. Charlie had a positive and hopeful experience, while Ben felt deeply hurt and ostracized by certain messages. As they discuss the positives and negatives, the conversation shifts away from the conference itself and becomes…
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Finding Light in Troubling Times (with Dr. Kristine Coons)
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IN the Scriptures: This week Clare Dalton is joined by Dr. Kristine Coons to explore the cautionary tales found the books of Mormon and Ether. They delve into the profound lessons learned from the destruction of two civilizations, reflecting on how these narratives serve as powerful reminders of the consequences of turning away from God. Throughout…
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Navigating Identity and Faith in New Zealand (with Shaqaila Uelese)
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OUT and About: Iese Wilson takes us to New Zealand where Shaquaila Uelese opens up about growing up, discovering her identity, and embracing the Māori term Takatapui. While her family initially struggled with her coming out, their love helped her reconnect with God and heal her testimony. Shaq also shares the inspiration behind her nonprofit, Never…
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Passing LGBTQ+ Nondiscrimination in a Conservative Community (with Mayor Giles)
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ALL Together: In this compelling episode, hosts Liz Macdonald and Michael Soto sit down with Mayor John Giles of Mesa, Arizona, to discuss the groundbreaking journey of passing an LGBTQ+ nondiscrimination ordinance in the city. Mayor Giles shares the intricate process of engaging with community members and church leaders, highlighting the challenge…
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Podcast Announcement - All Out In The Open
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In this live event from the gather conference, Charlie and Ben discuss the future of the podcast and where things are headedAll Out in the Open, Questions from the Closet által
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Bonus: How Has Dating Ben?
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In this episode Ben and Charlie discuss future plans for the podcast, the gather conference, and get an update on how dating has gone for BenQuestions from the Closet által
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Season 6 has come to a close! Ben and Charlie are joined by Sound Guy Mike to talk about the highlights from the season, including another AI written segment! Things are getting shaken up for Season 7 - keep an eye on our instagram for more.Questions from the Closet által
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How Do I Work Through Past Statements From Church Leaders?
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Ben and Charlie are joined by historian Barbara Jones Brown to discuss how they work through difficult things that past church leaders have said.Questions from the Closet által
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Ben and Charlie are joined again by Kade Cope to discuss how they deal with moving forward when they have felt stuck.Questions from the Closet által
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How Do I Balance the 2 Great Commandments
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Ben and Charlie are joined by Kade Cope to discuss how we can balance loving God and loving our neighbors.Questions from the Closet által
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How Do I See Myself In the Scriptures?
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In this episode Charlie and Ben share some of their recent insights while reading through the Book of Mormon. They share things they learned and how they have related it to their livesQuestions from the Closet által
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How Can I Share My Story?
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In this episode Ben and Charlie share some guidelines that have helped them when sharing their story with others.
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How Can I Be Supportive as a Leader?
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Ben and Charlie are joined by Rick Sorensen to discuss his experiences as a church leader and how you can support LGBTQ members.Questions from the Closet által
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What's it Like When a Kid Comes Out?
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In this episode Ben and Charlie are joined by Luke and Tiffany Sorensen to discuss their experiences as a son and mother when coming out.Questions from the Closet által
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Ben and Charlie are joined by Clare Dalton to discuss the importance of gathering together, and how you can start your own gathering.Questions from the Closet által
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What is Consent, and How can it Help Protect Against S.A.?
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In this episode Ben and Charlie are joined by Abigail Morrison to discuss what consent looks like and some helpful tips that can help to keep you safe.Questions from the Closet által
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What If a Loved One Insists I Leave the Church?
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Ben and Charlie are joined by Troy Williams of Equality Utah to discuss how to handle relationship dynamics when a love one decides to leave the church.Questions from the Closet által
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How Come All the Allies are Middle Aged Moms?
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In this episode, Ben and Charlie are joined by Cynthia Winward to talk about middle aged moms and why they make such great LGTBQ allies.
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Bonus: Hot Takes on Thanksgiving
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In this bonus episode Ben, Charlie, and Sound Guy Mike talk about their hot takes on Thanksgiving.Questions from the Closet által
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What are you Scared to Ask a Transgender Person?
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In this Episode Ben and Charlie are joined by Michael Soto to talk about some of the questions often asked about what it's like to be transgender. Content Advisory: This episode contains medical terms referring to genitalia and gender reassignment surgeries
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What If Staying Single Doesn't Feel Right Anymore?
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In this episode, Ben and Charlie sit down to discuss life changes for Ben.Questions from the Closet által
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How Do I Foster a More Secure Relationship With God?
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Ben and Charlie are joined by Tami Combs to discuss attachment theory, and how that can apply to your relationship with God.Questions from the Closet által
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What If I Feel Like a Failure?
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In this episode Charlie and Ben are joined by Joey Shephard (they/them) to discuss where feelings of failure can come from and how to deal with them.Questions from the Closet által
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How Do I Explain the Church's Stance on Homosexuality?
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In this episode Ben and Charlie are joined by Kimberly Teitter to discuss how they explain the church's stance on homosexuality with others.Questions from the Closet által
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Do You Ever Feel Conflicted Paying Tithing?
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In this episode, Charlie and Ben discuss how paying tithing can be a conflicting experience for LGBTQ individuals.Questions from the Closet által
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What do I do if listening to Conference hurts?
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In this episode Charlie and Ben discuss their thoughts and feelings on general conference.Questions from the Closet által
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Season 6 Opener - Live Event
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Join us as we kick of Season 6 - with a live event from the gather conference! As always Ben and Charlie kick off the next season with a Q&A session.Questions from the Closet által
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Come join us for the live Sseason 6 Premier on September 15th! It will be at the Utah Valley Convention Center at 7PM.Questions from the Closet által
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Classic Episode: Do you think the Church will change?
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Ben and Charlie discuss whether or not they expect changes in Church doctrine and policy regarding same-sex couples.Questions from the Closet által
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Classic Episode: What are the Pros and Cons of Coming Out?
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Ben and Charlie are joined by Stacey Harkey for a discussion of the pros and cons of coming out.
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Classic Episode: What are the Stages of Coming Out?
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Ben teaches Cass's 6 Stages of Coming Out. Scott Christofferson joins Ben and Charlie to talk about their experiences in each stage, as well as give advice for how friends and family can support LGBTQ+ loved ones throughout the process.
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Classic Episode: Am I Being Deceived?
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This is one you don't want to miss! Ben and Charlie are joined by David Butler for a conversation on how to recognize which thoughts come from the Spirit.Questions from the Closet által
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Classic Episode: Why do You Stay in the Church?
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Charlie and Ben talk about why they decide to move forward in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.Questions from the Closet által
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Classic Episode: Is There a Place for Me at Church?
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Ben, Charlie, and McKay Bryson have a raw conversation about what it's like to be a gay member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.Questions from the Closet által
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Classic Episode: How Can We Prevent LGBTQ Suicide?
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Suicidal ideation is very common and can surface in unexpected ways. This week we are joined by Taryn Hiatt, the Area Director for the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention. We talk about myths surrounding suicide, warning signs, and practical steps anyone can take when life feels overwhelming. Please do not miss this important episode. For fu…
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Classic Episode: How do I Reconcile my Patriarchal Blessing?
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What happens when you're LGBTQ/SSA but your patriarchal blessing mentions temple marriage? Dr. Richard Bushman, author, professor, scripture historian, and stake patriarch, joins us this week for an important discussion on how to reconcile sexual orientation with promises mentioned in a patriarchal blessing. Don't miss this episode!…
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Bonus: Season 4 Wrapped!
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Season 4 has come to a close. Ben, Charlie, and Sound Guy Mike talk about their favorite moments of the season, as well as what to look forward to for the next!Questions from the Closet által
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How Does Coming out Affect my Parents?
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Allison Dayton joins Ben and Charlie to talk about a mother's perspective when their child comes out.
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How Do I Build Community?
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In this episode Nadia and Nori join Ben and Charlie to discuss what it's like growing up as part of an immigrant family, and how it parallels the LGBTQ experience in many ways.Questions from the Closet által
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How do I Navigate the Gay Adolescence?
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Trigger Warning: S. A. In this episode, Molly Flake joins Ben and Charlie to discuss what the gay adolescence is and how she has navigated it.Questions from the Closet által
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How Could Coming Out Affect My Marriage?
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In this Episode, Ben and Charlie are joined by Liv to discuss how coming out as queer affected her marriage with her husband.Questions from the Closet által
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How can I Find Joy in the Temple as an LGBTQ Individual?
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In this episode, Ben and Charlie discuss how they feel when they go to the temple and what they get out of attending.Questions from the Closet által
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How do I Move Forward When Eternity Seems so Uncertain?
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Eric Hales joins Ben and Charlie again to discuss why eternity can seem so uncertain and how they deal with that uncertainty.Questions from the Closet által
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Does Anyone Date and Keep Going to Church?
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In this episode, Ben and Charlie are joined by Eric Hales and Will Edgel to discuss their experience as a couple who is dating and active in the chruch.Questions from the Closet által
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How do I Deal with All the Judgement?
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In this episode, Ben and Charlie discuss what they do to deal with judgment.Questions from the Closet által
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Is Same Sex Attraction a Trial?
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In this episode, Ben and Charlie are joined by Bryson to discuss their perspectives on whether same sex attraction is a trial or a blessing.Questions from the Closet által
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Why am I Feeling so Overwhelmed?
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In this episode, Ben and Charlie are joined by Bekah to discuss why LGBTQ+ people often experience feeling overwhelmed.Questions from the Closet által
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In this episode Ben, Charlie, and Austin read an episode of Questions From the Closet written by Chat GPT.
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In this episode Ben and Charlie are joined by Austin Peterson to discuss the history of the pride flag and what it means for members of the chruch.Questions from the Closet által
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