Are you unconsciously driving your partner away? What appears as helpful information can also be why they’re losing interest, attraction, and desire. Here’s how to get back on course and reignite your relationship.Your Attempt to Fix ThemPulling Away and Losing InterestCommunicating DifferentlyWork with Me:Consultation:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cur…

The avoidant craves you when you're distant but loses interest when you're available. Hot/cold. Push/pull. It will remain the same… until you do this: #DismissiveAvoidant #HotandColdThe avoidant’s attraction is fueled by longing, not love. It’s easy to hope your absence has sparked their desire. But once you’re back in their arms, their fear of eng…

Don’t Fall for This!Learn how the ‘frailty factor’ blindsides you every time. Here's how cons and scammers break your heart (and bank account)— and how realizing this dynamic shuts it down. #healthydating #scammers #onlinescams #romancescams #datinggamesHuman beings are built to love and be loved. It’s our natural desire. But in the hopes of being …

Unleash Your Personal Power-What is personal empowerment? What does it look like? How do we get it? My interview with award-winning Wellness and Relationship coach Teresha Young answers these questions and offers directives for setting boundaries, communicating effectively, and trusting yourself. What is Empowerment? What does it look like in the r…

Are you together, broken up, or something in between? Relationship limbo put you in a state of ongoing anxiety and confusion. Here are the steps to gain clarity and remove the mixed messages and ambiguity. Mixed Messages Delaying DTR Uncertainty About Your Future Communication TipsWork with Me:Consultation:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartac…

Do you know how to love yourself unconditionally? Does it seem like an impossible task? Here’s what it takes to get into agreement with yourself, your choices, and your journey.Stop ComparingMacro not Micro YOUThe ‘Dirty Mirror’ RealizationWhere Self-Love Went WrongWork with Me:Consultation:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowi…

Expressing sexual preferences can be challenging. In this interview, America's leading midlife dating and relationship coach, Jonathan Aslay, provides clear guidelines and practical speaking points to help you communicate your desires with confidence and ease.Stating Your PreferencesDating Contracts, Exclusivity, and Romantic GoalsFeedback and Hone…

Tired of dead-end relationships? Are you filtering for love? Or just wasting time. Here’s how to know if someone wants what you want and wants it with YOU. Filter From the Start Clarify Your Goals Discern, Assess, and Be DecisiveWork with Me:Consultation:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded …

Unlock the secrets of magnetic attraction. Discover the 3 proven strategies to becoming irresistibly desirable and alluring. If you’re looking lasting success in relationships, these factors make you stand out and captivate effortlessly. True interest in others. Ask questions about them. Warm personality – opposite of cold/aloof (which equals fear/…

Obsessed with your ex and stuck in a breakup loop? Learn how negative scripts hijack your mind and keep you from moving on—here’s how to break free and reclaim your peace. #BreakupAdvice #MoveOn If he/she doesn’t want me = no one will.They are irreplaceableThey’ll give all their love to someone elseUnnecessary suffering, through negative overthinki…

You have innate human rights as a dater. Know what constitutes proper treatment, and what is unacceptable. Here’s how to communicate your needs so that they will be honored. #DatingRightsYour Right to be RespectedRespecting OthersBoundaries and ResentmentsHow to Communicate Your NeedsWork with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games De…

Are You Subconsciously Dating for Approval? Men date women for the approval of other men. Women date men for the approval of other women. Here’s how the desire for social approval impacts mate selection and our future happiness. #ApprovalPrisonSocial InfluenceGroup Acceptance and StatusIndependent ThinkingAuthentic Choice of MateWork with Me:Consul…

You can feel it—they’re pulling away but insist everything’s fine. Who’s right: your gut or their words? Here’s how to uncover the truth:Is It Your Fear or Their Actions/Inactions?How to Speak UpLanguage and ToneHonest CommunicationAnswersWork with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle:The Older Women | Younger Men Dat…

Are you stuck in 'The Approval Prison,' constantly chasing likes, status, or validation? Learn how external evaluation systems keep you trapped and discover the key to securing real self-worth on your terms.Externalized Version of WorthSecuring Inner WorthSocial Media ConformityAccepting Your ChoicesWork with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guide:…

The partner you say you want isn’t the one you’re actually choosing. Why? It’s the Dating Paradox. Learn how to stop picking the wrong person and get out of your own way. Here’s how to find lasting love.The Dating ParadoxWhy We Choose Blindly (with our eyes)Edifying Our EgoSocial Status and Peer ApprovalWork with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Gu…

Rejection hurts. And it’s hard not to personalize it. But what if the real reason someone walked away has nothing to do with you as a person? Here’s how to decode the real reason for their rejection and gain insight to the bigger picture at hand.Work with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle:The Older Women | Younger …

We often hear in dating advice, “Don’t give your power away.” How does that look in the real world? Here’s how to never feel like you’ve lost your power, no matter the circumstance. Power Dynamics In A Relationship Keeping Control, Independent Of Circumstances How To Do It ExamplesWork with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decod…

Feeling judged? Here’s Why—Being judged hurts, but it says more about them than you. Here’s the reason and how to confidently flip the tables to your favor.Judgement Speaks Volumes About the Judger Fear of Difference and the UnknownOnly Two Positions- Open/ClosedThe Closed Position Evolving Toward OpenWork with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guid…

Obsession enables us to ignore red flags. We’ve locked onto the moment we felt desired and adored. Now, that moments gone. But we’re still trapped in a loop of yearning...until we understand the Relevancy Principle. The Mental Snapshot That Hooked YouWhy We Ignore Red Flags Assessing Present Behavior- Relevancy PrincipleWork with Me:Consultation:Th…

Is your obsession real love or just loneliness playing tricks on you? Here’s how to pull back the curtain on lingering feelings of melancholy and determine the truth of your feelings. Here’s how to view our ex in totality and see the complete picture in full dimension. 1.How To Know If It’s Love Or Loneliness 2.How And Why You Got Stuck 3.Deconstru…

Thinking of getting back with your ex? Learn to spot the line between positive hope and harmful delusion. Here’s how to get what you truly want… 1.Consider the past- positive or negative 2.Are there lingering unresolved issues? 3.Do they care to try again? Work with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle:The Older Women…

Thinking of getting back with your ex? Learn to spot the line between positive hope and harmful delusion. Here’s how to get what you truly want… 1.Consider the past- positive or negative 2.Are there lingering unresolved issues? 3.Do they care to try again? Work with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle:The Older Women…

We often hear it said that you have to love yourself before you can love someone else. But is that true? And, what about your partner? Can they love you if they don’t love themselves? Here’s the surprising answer: 1.How do you know if you love yourself? 2.How do you know if your partner loves themselves? 3.How important are these two factors in a r…

Blindsided Breakup? Do This… What’s the quickest way to bounce back from a blindsided breakup? How do you heal from your partner’s betrayal and sudden exit? Here’s how to fast-track your recovery from the breakup you never saw coming: The shock of a sudden breakup can feel excruciating. The betrayal of trust and confusion is overwhelming, as is the…

How do you tell your new dating app match that you want to keep your options open and see others before committing? Here’s how to handle this early relationship conversation with diplomacy and ease. Work with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle:The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men B…

Wondering if your player has any real feelings for you? Here’s what you need to know about your hot and cold player, and how they play the game. The reality of dating a player can be excruciating. Their attention is intoxicating. It seemed like they truly cared… Until they didn’t. You can often get hung up and wondering if they ever cared at all. H…

Have you fallen for the “Spiritual Player?” You may think you want a spiritual partner— but what you’re really requesting is ethical behavior and higher standards. Here’s the test: 1. You assume the realm is “safe” – not so. 2. Know your ‘why.’ What’s the real reason behind your request? 3. Beware of spiritual gaslighting. You’ll be blamed as being…

Struggling to find love? Frustrated, exhausted and in need of hope? Learn the structure and tools that enable you to get the love you want from the first date onward. These are the foundational principles: 1.Hope: 2.Filtering: 3.Communication: 4.Process: Work with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle:The Older Women |…

Is it your first love (and first breakup)? Or is it the first time you let yourself fall in love? Recovering from this type of heartache requires these tools: 1.Accepting it’s over 2.Separating ‘the dream’ from reality 3.Trust LIFE to bring you love again. Work with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle:The Older Women…

What is the ‘3-6-9 Rule’ for relationships and why is it crucial for finding a lasting love? Here's how evaluating your relationship at each segment of time will reveal key insights that guide you in determining if this is your ‘person.' 3. The Discovery Phase:The first three months are a period of discovery and assessment. Here is where you assess…

Ever felt like love is more about 'give and take' than genuine connection? You may be in a transactional relationship. Learn how to spot the signs and identify the cycles so you can protect your heart. ·Identify Transactional Relationship Signs: Learn how to recognize the key indicators of a transactional relationship and ensure your connection is …

Are you attracted to unavailable and bored with compatible? Attraction and chemistry may seem independent of logic… until you understand this: ·Underlying Factors:Discover the underlying factors that allow you to find healthy relationships boring and how to overcome the desire to create drama and distraction in your life ·Break the Cycle:Learn how …

Are you agonizing over the fact that it’s your fault for the breakup? Here’s how to handle your guilt and anxiety… and (possibly) recover the situation: ·Why you feel such guilt over the breakup that was supposed to set you free. ·How dumpers remorse keeps you locked in a loop of stagnation ·How to make peace with yourself and move on knowing that …

You did everything right—were the perfect partner but still got dumped. How can you heal and rebuild after heartbreak? Here’s how to let go of the grief, anger, and sadness and move forward without regrets. Work with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle:The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Young…

Want to overcome your dating anxiety? Wish you knew the key to leading with confidence and self-assurance? Here’s how to shift your mindset and free your fear Work with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle:The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for…

Monogamy, or Not? Which is the right choice for you? If you don’t know what you want, you’ll get what your partner gives you. Clarity is essential in supporting your dating goals and in choosing the relationship model that’s right for you. Work with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle:The Older Women | Younger Men Da…

Struggling To Let Go? No one said letting go was easy, but here’s how to enable (and assist) Life in moving you forward to find love again. Work with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle:The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleA…

They enjoy your company but don’t want to commit. What should you do when they like you, but not enough for a relationship? Here’s the answer. Work with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle:The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audib…

Has your self-esteem taken a hit from too much dating drama? Are you starting to doubt yourself? Questioning your instincts or wondering if there’s something wrong with you? Here are some tips on how to gain (and maintain) your self-esteem. Gaining and maintaining self-esteem during the ups and downs of modern dating can be exhausting. One minute y…

How do you tell your new dating app match that you want to keep your options open and see others before committing? Here’s how to handle this early relationship conversation with diplomacy and ease. Work with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle:The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men B…

Are you an over-giver? Feeling unappreciated, burnt out, and resentful? Here’s how over-giving hurts your relationship and what you can do about it. Learn to create a balance between giving and receiving for a healthy, happy partnership. Work with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle:The Older Women | Younger Men Dati…

Are they hot and cold with everyone? Or is it ONLY with you? Here’s how to decode hot and cold relationships to learn if you’re the only one being played or just another pawn in their game.Work with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle:The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle:Book…

How To Overcome Fear of Rejection And Allow Love Into Your Life: Are you sabotaging love by being more afraid of rejection than filtering for the right kind of partner? If you don’t know what you want, you will get what they give you. Here’s how to set the stage for allowing love into your life and having the type of relationship that’s best for yo…

How do you repair your relationship after someone cheats? Rebuilding trust and a life together is a concerted effort for which both partners must be truly committed. If you’ve chosen to stay, then choose to move on. Here is how to rebuild after cheating:Work with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle:The Older Women | …

Wish love could be simplified? How do you know if the person you're seeing is worth dating? Here are four signs that prove your date is in alignment with you and your romantic goals.Work with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle:The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle:Books:Break…

You’re ready to date— but the pickings are slim. Your location and preferences offer a limited selection from which to find your right match. If you're finding 'not ready' and 'not available?' Here’s what you can do to increase your dating pool options: Work with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle:The Older Women | …

Happily married, but feel like you never ‘explored’ single life? Before you destroy the solidity of what you have, consider these healthy options to satisfy your curiosity.Work with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle:The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle:Books:Breakup Triage;…

Wondering how to get over someone you never dated? Are you caught in a loop of obsession and can't seem to break free? Here’s what’s really going on— learn how to stop wanting them and open up to someone who is available and interestedWork with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle:The Older Women | Younger Men Dating …

What is the ‘slow dating process?’ Learn the formula to creating a long-lasting love. Work with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle:The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Y…

?si=pK9IaU8Bl1ShOV5FYou lacked confidence and were afraid to proceed… so they thought you weren’t interested. Can you reignite their attraction? #breakup #FearOfRejection #confidence #attraction #chemistry #newrelationshipsWork with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle:The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older…